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Old 06-10-2009 | 11:55 PM
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Old 06-11-2009 | 12:10 AM
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Originally Posted by delff128
Am I just miss interpreting them and making them into something they are not?
Yes.

Lord knows that I am the last person to ever take relationship advice from and I mean the last person. But she probably looked at you because she recognized you from the library. At first glance, you looked familiar. Second, I know that face but can't place it. Third, oh it's the guy from the library. Fourth, verification of the third look.
 
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Old 06-11-2009 | 12:20 AM
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You could be misinterpreting something like King said, but you only go around once, so find out. Not knowing and what-if's can kill you.
 
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Old 06-11-2009 | 08:33 AM
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Just go talk to her. No harm in that. You guys see each other all the time. Just go up and start talking and you never know what might happen.
 
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Old 06-11-2009 | 11:54 AM
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Hell yeah just spark up a convo with her and try to get her to giggle or laugh or at least fucken smile, the coffee thing was good it shouldve went like this:

delff128: hey so you wanna grab a cup o coffee?
Hottie: well i dont drink coffee tho.
delff128: thats ok neither do I.

next thing u know u r playing naked leapfrog
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 12:10 AM
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As the saying goes, All's fair in love and war. try flirting with her in the library too. You should be able to get a vibe or 2 from that alone.. Just be yourself and be confident, women love that ****.. Just start a casual conversation. ie, Please don't say " Is it hot in here or is it just you".. just ask her to help you find a book or something..
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 12:32 AM
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Originally Posted by the gillz
Hell yeah just spark up a convo with her and try to get her to giggle or laugh or at least fucken smile, the coffee thing was good it shouldve went like this:

delff128: hey so you wanna grab a cup o coffee?
Hottie: well i dont drink coffee tho.
delff128: thats ok neither do I.

next thing u know u r playing naked leapfrog
Haha...you play too much Grand Theft Auto, man.
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 05:35 AM
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Girls with boyfriends are always a funner challenge lol.

But true story, when i had a girlfriend it was always easier to pick up other girls. When i would have a night out with the guys, and we would all leave our girlfriends at home and go clubbing, when i would walk into girls i knew and they asked me "wheres your gf?" and i told them "at home, guys night out", they would always get adventures and I would end up hooking up with them. One of them once even told me "its always funner to hookup with guys who have girlfriends".

Obviously these type of girls are not wifey material, but point of the story is if your looking for a quick rip and dip dont let her having a boyfriend stop you.

Then again not everyone is dirtbags the way people are down here.
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted by SPiNz
Girls with boyfriends are always a funner challenge lol.

But true story, when i had a girlfriend it was always easier to pick up other girls. When i would have a night out with the guys, and we would all leave our girlfriends at home and go clubbing, when i would walk into girls i knew and they asked me "wheres your gf?" and i told them "at home, guys night out", they would always get adventures and I would end up hooking up with them. One of them once even told me "its always funner to hookup with guys who have girlfriends".

Obviously these type of girls are not wifey material, but point of the story is if your looking for a quick rip and dip dont let her having a boyfriend stop you.

Then again not everyone is dirtbags the way people are down here.
I've been trying to keep my opinions about you out the threads since the one got closed because I will admit, I along with some others did get a little carried away. But this overrides all of the car non-sense people (including myself) have been ranting on in all of your posts.

I think anybody who is willing to cheat on their girlfriend in the first place (not even taking into consideration the other half, where you were encouraging others to do the same) should be taken out back and shot.

(this is not a threat, btw...it's an opinion)
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted by SPiNz
Girls with boyfriends are always a funner challenge lol.

But true story, when i had a girlfriend it was always easier to pick up other girls. When i would have a night out with the guys, and we would all leave our girlfriends at home and go clubbing, when i would walk into girls i knew and they asked me "wheres your gf?" and i told them "at home, guys night out", they would always get adventures and I would end up hooking up with them. One of them once even told me "its always funner to hookup with guys who have girlfriends".

Obviously these type of girls are not wifey material, but point of the story is if your looking for a quick rip and dip dont let her having a boyfriend stop you.

Then again not everyone is dirtbags the way people are down here.

I think you win the douche bag olympics
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted by King
I've been trying to keep my opinions about you out the threads since the one got closed because I will admit, I along with some others did get a little carried away. But this overrides all of the car non-sense people (including myself) have been ranting on in all of your posts.

I think anybody who is willing to cheat on their girlfriend in the first place (not even taking into consideration the other half, where you were encouraging others to do the same) should be taken out back and shot.

(this is not a threat, btw...it's an opinion)
I have to say, it's no surprise considering his "lifestyle".
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted by King
I've been trying to keep my opinions about you out the threads since the one got closed because I will admit, I along with some others did get a little carried away. But this overrides all of the car non-sense people (including myself) have been ranting on in all of your posts.

I think anybody who is willing to cheat on their girlfriend in the first place (not even taking into consideration the other half, where you were encouraging others to do the same) should be taken out back and shot.

(this is not a threat, btw...it's an opinion)

im single now because I know i cant be loyal, specially at this age.

being wifed up is too boring for me.
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 09:13 AM
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I would bet money that you have herpes
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 09:17 AM
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I would think that you guys be friends first before anything. Think about it this way, if you keep thinking of her as a potential girlfriend, it'll be harder for you to go up to her and talk. So, think of her as a friend and when you get to know her, decide whether or not she's girlfriend material. But yes, flirt

And Nick, dude, don't be so hard on yourself.
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 09:19 AM
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damn if i ever visit miami wifeys going on lockdown yo we're talking ankle monitor ****
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted by the gillz
damn if i ever visit miami wifeys going on lockdown yo we're talking ankle monitor ****
id recommend you leave her at home
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 09:49 AM
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remember the girl to guy ratio on south beach is 2 girls for every guy. the wifey should put an ankle bracelet on you
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 10:05 AM
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Since you're pretty new, I should make note that I am a girl before I start my initial reaction to your post.

If she has a boyfriend, she is off limits... period. It doesn't matter how many 'glances' you throw at each other. She basically thinks you're either attractive or deformed, but that doesn't mean anything more, really. For instance, I am engaged. That doesn't mean I don't look at other guys that are attractive, but that is all I will do.

Don't talk to her co-workers to see where she is. That is just creepy and stalkerish. If I had a guy do that to me, I'd avoid him like the black plague.

Unless she comes to you, leave things as they are right now.
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 10:08 AM
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Originally Posted by Black Sunshine
Since you're pretty new, I should make note that I am a girl before I start my initial reaction to your post.

If she has a boyfriend, she is off limits... period. It doesn't matter how many 'glances' you throw at each other. She basically thinks you're either attractive or deformed, but that doesn't mean anything more, really. For instance, I am engaged. That doesn't mean I don't look at other guys that are attractive, but that is all I will do.

Don't talk to her co-workers to see where she is. That is just creepy and stalkerish. If I had a guy do that to me, I'd avoid him like the black plague.

Unless she comes to you, leave things as they are right now.
Im paying someone to stalk you for me since i cant always be in northern florida
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 12:03 PM
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thats like on the movie something about mary when ben stiller pays matt dillon to stalk cameron diaz. she is in a wheelchair, has like 5 kids, and put on like 200 lbs.
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by SPiNz
Im paying someone to stalk you for me since i cant always be in northern florida
See, you just gave yourself away. Now, I know who to go to and kill if I see some strange person following me!
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Black Sunshine
If she has a boyfriend, she is off limits... period.
Well you can be a home wrecker
 
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Old 06-12-2009 | 03:25 PM
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I would just go about your normal business and if she wants to talk to you, she'll talk to you. Don't stress it. There's plenty of good girls out there.
 
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