Girl problems.
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From: Ecorse, Michigan
Originally Posted by madmatt
Thanks. I know its going to be awkward, but im going to try my damnedest to still be great friends with her.
Its hard to get over a loved one unless your love is directed somewhere else.
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From: Tualatin, OR.
I understand where you're at! Just be careful not to get hurt any more than you already are! 
Emotional rollercoasters are a tough ride for me!! 
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Take it easy Matt!! All the best to you too!!
Emotional rollercoasters are a tough ride for me!! LOL Take it easy Matt!! All the best to you too!!
Originally Posted by madmatt
Thanks. I know its going to be awkward, but im going to try my damnedest to still be great friends with her.
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Everyone has given you good advice and you should move forward with a positive attitude. You are alive one more day in this world, there is so much to do in this life and being depressed or upset is not one of them.
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From: Lexington, SC
Ok, so we saw each other today. And, to be honest, I feel a lot better. We still share feelings of love for each other, I think right now its just come down to us taking a break for a while. Im still optimistic for the future, but Im not going to dwell on it. I cant explain it, and neither can she how we still feel the same feelings for each other so strongly. Damn, girls are confusing as hell...
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Joined: Jul 2005
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From: Downingtown/West Chester, PA
yea...i remember this girl and i were really close...we like each other n stuff..then one day she said that she didnt like me anymore....that broke my heart...she then told me that she lied and really did like me and was just scared cause it just hit her...she didnt really go thru the "o i think it would be cool to go out with him" stage....then about..i dunno...a month later....we were going out....its been 3 months this past 20th weve been going out........moral of the story.....she may come bak to her sences and want u bak
n yes they are....dont think that many of us "youngens" do
Originally Posted by madmatt
Damn, girls are confusing as hell...
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Dont even bother seeing her, tell her you are gonna be busy for a while and might not see herr much.
stay away from her, that is the best thing you can do, in a month or so give her a ring and say what's up, you cannot get past her if you follow her around like a lapdog, trust me.
That really sucks man, i feel yer pain. I was with this chick for 2 years, looked like marrige was in the future, i bought her mom's house and a week later she left my ***. <laugh> i got the better end of that deal. I thought the world was over and i would never find anyone again.
Then i found another girl, we dated for about 5 months and it was all going great then BAN! i got banned. the whole "not ready for a serious relationship" thing, then a couple months later she has a new boyfriend.
Then i met another girl, dated a month and a half and i got sick of her *** and dumped her.
The one thing ive learned from all my past relationships is this, when the girl leaves you, unless you OBVIOUSLY did something to mess up (cheat on her, shoot her cat, hit her) then you can not believe ANYTHING they say.
That entire "Im not ready" thing is a staple BS that a girl gives ya. She is Lying. Either she finds you boring, you were in a rut, or she found a new male interest. The problem was you, and it sucks, but there it is. It doesent mean there is anything WRONG with you, but yer not what she was looking for. There are plenty of women out there.
Let it die, never look back, and no matter what NEVER EVER EVER EVER date her again, the whole honeymoon thing will be better than ever then the relationship will crumble all over again, and you will be hurt even worse.
I had been jumping from relationship to relationship for a while now and im just p,lain done. time to go back to womanizing and having some fun. Maybe illl meet the person of my dreams, probably not.
Cold hard fact of reality? For MOST people there is no riding off to the sunset, there is no silver lining, The sooner you accept that fact the easier things become.
all you can do is hope one day you find a cute girl who doesent constantly **** you off.
My advice? Take that car of yours out and go meet some women.
Good luck buddy, we have all been there and you have all our support.
stay away from her, that is the best thing you can do, in a month or so give her a ring and say what's up, you cannot get past her if you follow her around like a lapdog, trust me.
That really sucks man, i feel yer pain. I was with this chick for 2 years, looked like marrige was in the future, i bought her mom's house and a week later she left my ***. <laugh> i got the better end of that deal. I thought the world was over and i would never find anyone again.
Then i found another girl, we dated for about 5 months and it was all going great then BAN! i got banned. the whole "not ready for a serious relationship" thing, then a couple months later she has a new boyfriend.
Then i met another girl, dated a month and a half and i got sick of her *** and dumped her.
The one thing ive learned from all my past relationships is this, when the girl leaves you, unless you OBVIOUSLY did something to mess up (cheat on her, shoot her cat, hit her) then you can not believe ANYTHING they say.
That entire "Im not ready" thing is a staple BS that a girl gives ya. She is Lying. Either she finds you boring, you were in a rut, or she found a new male interest. The problem was you, and it sucks, but there it is. It doesent mean there is anything WRONG with you, but yer not what she was looking for. There are plenty of women out there.
Let it die, never look back, and no matter what NEVER EVER EVER EVER date her again, the whole honeymoon thing will be better than ever then the relationship will crumble all over again, and you will be hurt even worse.
I had been jumping from relationship to relationship for a while now and im just p,lain done. time to go back to womanizing and having some fun. Maybe illl meet the person of my dreams, probably not.
Cold hard fact of reality? For MOST people there is no riding off to the sunset, there is no silver lining, The sooner you accept that fact the easier things become.
all you can do is hope one day you find a cute girl who doesent constantly **** you off.
My advice? Take that car of yours out and go meet some women.
Good luck buddy, we have all been there and you have all our support.
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From: Lexington, SC
I thank you for your advice, and I know this will sound stupid, but this girl isnt the "women" you describe. It may come back to bite me in the ***, but no, Im not going to just leave her like that and never talk to her again.
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Originally Posted by madmatt
I thank you for your advice, and I know this will sound stupid, but this girl isnt the "women" you describe. It may come back to bite me in the ***, but no, Im not going to just leave her like that and never talk to her again.
Anyways, i hope things get better for ya man.
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Originally Posted by madmatt
Ok, so we saw each other today. And, to be honest, I feel a lot better. We still share feelings of love for each other, I think right now its just come down to us taking a break for a while. Im still optimistic for the future, but Im not going to dwell on it. I cant explain it, and neither can she how we still feel the same feelings for each other so strongly. Damn, girls are confusing as hell...
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