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Old 09-07-2005, 08:27 PM
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In my History class and I don't know what has happened to me, but ever since i saw that beautiful face i can't stop thinking about her! It its the most beautiful girl i have ever seen and i have no words to explain what i feel! The girl is extremely hot!! There is one problem however, she sits in the row right behind me about 3 seats to my left and as far as i can tell the guy who sits next to her is either her brother or her bf, as i saw them coming in together to class as well as walking together out of class, and walking in the halls together ect... so i don't know! However, I have not seen any unusual touching on his behalf so its hard to say! Anyways i'm hauling *** to the barber shop in the morning to get a clean cut and tell this chick whats up! ...I'm gonna try my luck tomorrow and see what fate has in stored for me! That is all!

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Old 09-07-2005, 08:29 PM
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Good luck for you my man. Hope all goes well...
 
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You are better off with dannyb.
 
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Old 09-07-2005, 08:41 PM
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hay big boi....


























 
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Oh snap, I forgot all about DannyB. Take the DB, just look at him. How could you resist a guy like DannyB?
 
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Old 09-07-2005, 08:51 PM
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I'm cuter
 
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Originally Posted by MattJ
You are better off with dannyb.

Naaahh..I'll pass thanks...
 
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good luck man, just tell her you drive a mustang................that's all you need right?
 
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good luck man, just tell her you drive a mustang................that's all you need right?
I hope!
 
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Old 09-07-2005, 11:18 PM
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I just gotta reply to this one. I used to be on the school babe alert team. If you think she is his sister look for any similarities. like facial features. Most brothers and sisters resemble each other without looking alike.

Also watch for mannerisms. Does she and he walk close to each other? Maybe bumping playfully into each other down the hall. Bro's and sis's wont do that.

But also watch if she's checking out anyone else while they are with each other. if so she is fair game. They may be a couple but that aint set in stone.

You may gain a girl who obviously has your chest tightened up. ( I used to love that feeling until I got married LOL) and you may make an enemy by stealing said GF.

Anyway GL I know that feeling and it is a powerful thang. getting all goose pimply when you see her.
 
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Old 09-08-2005, 04:50 AM
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Maybe that dude is one of her gay friends. Hot chicks always keep a couple of gay guys around: They get to have a male to talk to who isn't just trying to f*** her.

Don't act overly insterested, just play it smooth and don't act desperate. Chicks love a guy that they think they can't get.
 
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Good luck man. Make sure you report your findings.
 
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Originally Posted by madmatt
Good luck man. Make sure you report your findings.
+1! Good luck! Post pics too! I wanna see how HOT she is? lol
 
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Old 09-08-2005, 08:35 AM
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How did it go????
 
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Well, she never made it to class! ....the professor has this gay *** rule which states that if you are late you are not allowed into class! I didn't get to see her! .......i guess ima have to holler at her next week!....all this tension got me worked up!...blah...
 
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Old 09-08-2005, 01:40 PM
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Dude don't be a punk about it... never ask if she has a boyfriend or whatever - act like you never noticed this guy was around. Just ask her out to lunch or coffee - whatever, never ask her to a movie or anything cheesy like that.

The chic also will know that she's hot, so don't comment on her looks (I'm sure she hears enough about it) - make her think it's cooler for her to go out with you. And don't mention the car for Christ's sakes... let her comment on it when your in the back seat.

I'd hate for you to blow your chances before you even get started... be cool. Your first outting should be to get to know each other better - and if you're at a coffee shop or someplace like that you can stair at her all day and she'll think your listening.

Remember, be cool... relax, don't rush it... your in control.

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Old 09-08-2005, 02:32 PM
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well since I'm a girl I'd have to say Shaker's advice is really good! Especially about the car, I hate it when guys make a big deal about their cars. Don't get me wrong I love my car and I like it when someone love's what car that they do have, but the car seems so much better when the driver is modest about it. I dunno why lol.
 
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Yea, so, lets get this straight...YOU BLEW IT...lol jk man. Next week will seem like months lol. Definately take her out to lunch, then take her on a picnic.
 
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and then buy her some 17" deep dish bullitt rims



oh wait.. that's just me :\
 
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Old 09-08-2005, 03:00 PM
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Ok, I have to chime in. A woman this hot is use to being drooled over and catered too. You have to be different, you have to be a challenge. Also, don't ask if the other guy is her BF ask if she's single. Most women are usually a little in shock when you ask them this. Also, I would go for her e-mail (once you've established she's single) and then in a couple of days invite her for coffee or something. You have to leave her wanting more, don't be like all the other horndogs and fall all over yourself trying to impress her.

But, this is just my opinion, take it for what it's worth.
 
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Old 09-08-2005, 03:01 PM
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Just be yourself, its better for her to blow you off now then later if she doesnt like your personality.
 
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Thanks for the advice guys...a couple of things that i feel i should ask questions about. Supposing that she does agree to go out with me, where would be a good place to start things out? I was thinking dinner as it has always worked for me in the past, i'd like to hear what you guys have done in the past. I was also never planning on telling her i drive a mustang, whoever uses that as a sort of pick up line is gay. Anyways I was thinking of taking her somewhere like olive garder or so...I know back in high school going to the movies was the ****.. ...

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Try to go somewhere smaller and not a major restaurant chain you may pay a bit more but its more romantic.
 
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Originally Posted by venom
Try to go somewhere smaller and not a major restaurant chain you may pay a bit more but its more romantic.

Hmmm.......
 
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Old 09-08-2005, 03:50 PM
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Go somewhere fun and exciting. Do something most other guys dont do. Take her go-carting if its available, mini-golfing, the zoo is even a cool place to go.
 
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Like I said, your first outing should be to get to know each other… if you go out to dinner the pressure is on, and you’re not as likely to talk without feeling rushed by the wait staff. I would go to your local Starbucks (get a tea, not coffee or your breath will stink before the dates over) or if the weathers good, some outdoor café where you two could just talk (and hey it’s cheaper!). Arrive separately and leave separately – it’s a no pressure outing and you’d most likely be called on again. If she offers her number (don’t ask for it) or other contact info take it; but don’t use it right away, and don’t offer yours (she could be a stalker) – wait until you see her again in class then ask her out in person. You don’t want to appear like your desperate – remember you need to be in control.

One other note about meeting this way, not only is it less pressure for both of you and cheaper – it show’s that your interested in her and what she’s about rather than showing her you can afford dinner. Remember, after you spend an hour on dinner… you’d be left with tons of time on your hands – if you meet and just talk at a café you can hang out for hours and not have to commit to anything else. Your second date should be just as painless on you – I’d hold off on feeding her – it’s been done, so get creative – if she mentions something that she likes to do for fun from date 1, then do that for date 2. Dinner should be as a last resort, when you have lost all creativity. And save the movies for when you get married.

I forgot to mention, if she invites you out with her friends – you better go, not all girls will do this and it’s a good sign that she’s into you and looking for her friends unbias opinion, so be interested in them too.

Just call me The Love Doctor – and yes, this is what I did to score my wife – 12 years married and never more in love. Oh, and hey – she dig’s the car too!



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Originally Posted by Shaker242
Like I said, your first outing should be to get to know each other… if you go out to dinner the pressure is on, and you’re not as likely to talk without feeling rushed by the wait staff. I would go to your local Starbucks (get a tea, not coffee or your breath will stink before the dates over) or if the weathers good, some outdoor café where you two could just talk (and hey it’s cheaper!). Arrive separately and leave separately – it’s a no pressure outing and you’d most likely be called on again. If she offers her number (don’t ask for it) or other contact info take it; but don’t use it right away, and don’t offer yours (she could be a stalker) – wait until you see her again in class then ask her out in person. You don’t want to appear like your desperate – remember you need to be in control.

One other note about meeting this way, not only is it less pressure for both of you and cheaper – it show’s that your interested in her and what she’s about rather than showing her you can afford dinner. Remember, after you spend an hour on dinner… you’d be left with tons of time on your hands – if you meet and just talk at a café you can hang out for hours and not have to commit to anything else. Your second date should be just as painless on you – I’d hold off on feeding her – it’s been done, so get creative – if she mentions something that she likes to do for fun from date 1, then do that for date 2. Dinner should be as a last resort, when you have lost all creativity. And save the movies for when you get married.

I forgot to mention, if she invites you out with her friends – you better go, not all girls will do this and it’s a good sign that she’s into you and looking for her friends unbias opinion, so be interested in them too.

Just call me The Love Doctor – and yes, this is what I did to score my wife – 12 years married and never more in love. Oh, and hey – she dig’s the car too!



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Dayum...thats some good stuff there man...we have this place called speedzone here and its tons of fun...they have go karts...mini dragsters..you can't steer them though...they are a fun as hell, but that might be cause i'm a guy....i don't know if girls are interested in that kinda stuff...but i will give it a shot if things go well for me!
 
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Dayum...thats some good stuff there man...we have this place called speedzone here and its tons of fun...they have go karts...mini dragsters..you can't steer them though...they are a fun as hell, but that might be cause i'm a guy....i don't know if girls are interested in that kinda stuff...but i will give it a shot if things go well for me!

Um, no... Not a good idea. I know this might be hard to understand... but chic’s already know we like toys... and taking her there on any of your first 10 dates will confirm that you're still twelve.

Why do you think chic's dig older guys? Because we give up the toys just long enough to show them that they are our new passion. Get into this mindset... remember, you want to be in a non threatening place where you two can just talk. I know this is hard for us guys, but chic's know how to communicate and you better too... keep it simple and the less interference the better. No toys, no competition… just talk.

Although - you can ignore everything I've said and wing it - We've got your back either way!

Good luck!

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Originally Posted by venom
Try to go somewhere smaller and not a major restaurant chain you may pay a bit more but its more romantic.

I’ll tell you, Venom goes right for the soft spot… romance. This mean’s he means business and can most likely handle himself properly in this setting. Steer clear until you gather some nerve and know her a bit, and then pour on the romance.

You want to score some major points – on about date 5; pick her up with a thermos of hot chocolate… near evening – say 7pm (make sure your car is clean, inside and out) then go for a nice cruse in the most outback romantic place you can find… pull over, crack open the thermos and get a little closer (outside the car!). Keep the tunes where you can just barely here them… point of the conversation? Date1 ~ reminisce + romance. See... you'd be taking it up a knotch. Oh - take MattJ's advice about the zoo...(date 2 or 3) chic's dig zoo's and here it's a perfect example of a nonthreatening situation.

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i think my best date was picking the girl up after she got outta school (yeah, im a young'un compared to some of you) then we drove down to hunntington beach, walked around there for while, looked through shops, jacked around on the pier, laid out on the beach for a few minutes, then went and got lunch, then went back to this little park by her house and just chilled there watching the kiddies run around makin asses of themselves while we talked. =)
i think the biggest thing on a date is find somethin u both will like, and somethin where u guys can talk. movies are a major no for the first date, u just sit there w/ some weirdo next to u? hmm... just relax, know u can get her (aim for outta ur league, youll succeed a lot of times!) but dont act to cocky... unless shes into that sorta thing. then go for it. good luck, and let us know what happens
 


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