different levels of commitment
#1
05-25-2007, 04:55 PM
different levels of commitment
i dont want to hijack 00blkstanggt's thread about his cousin but i was thinkin about this question:
what are the different levels of commitment? should you have been as loyal to your girlfriend as you will be to your wife?
girlfriend...fiance....wife
see...to my thinkin when you get up to that altar and say your vows thats it...and that should mean somethin more than givin some girl your fraternity ring...right or wrong? shouldnt her becoming your wife mean that NOW you cant boink any other girls....and heres a deeper question to go along with that: is it even possible to be unfaithful to a girl you made no commitment to? i've been to a lot of bachelor parties and seen a lot of grooms do a lot of crazy stuff with strippers all in the name of a last hoorah...so what are the different levels of commitment?
what are the different levels of commitment? should you have been as loyal to your girlfriend as you will be to your wife?
girlfriend...fiance....wife
see...to my thinkin when you get up to that altar and say your vows thats it...and that should mean somethin more than givin some girl your fraternity ring...right or wrong? shouldnt her becoming your wife mean that NOW you cant boink any other girls....and heres a deeper question to go along with that: is it even possible to be unfaithful to a girl you made no commitment to? i've been to a lot of bachelor parties and seen a lot of grooms do a lot of crazy stuff with strippers all in the name of a last hoorah...so what are the different levels of commitment?
#2
05-25-2007, 04:58 PM
I appreciate you starting a new thread cause the other one was getting off topic. Anyways, you know where I stand.
#3
05-25-2007, 05:38 PM
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Here is an easy answer.
If you have thoughts for other women and would actually entertain the idea of messing around with another woman, then you should NOT be getting married.
The difference between a Wife and a Girlfriend is the Woman, not the title of her relation status.
A woman who you dig can be either a girlfriend or a wife, but should probably, and most likely will, remain as simply a girlfriend.
A woman you fall in love with can also be either a girlfriend or wife, but is more likely to become a wife.
You cant let the Terms Girlfriend, Fiancee or Wife dictate your level of commitment, instead your level of commitment should dictate thier relational status
If you have thoughts for other women and would actually entertain the idea of messing around with another woman, then you should NOT be getting married.
The difference between a Wife and a Girlfriend is the Woman, not the title of her relation status.
A woman who you dig can be either a girlfriend or a wife, but should probably, and most likely will, remain as simply a girlfriend.
A woman you fall in love with can also be either a girlfriend or wife, but is more likely to become a wife.
You cant let the Terms Girlfriend, Fiancee or Wife dictate your level of commitment, instead your level of commitment should dictate thier relational status
#4
05-25-2007, 06:11 PM
Marry a bi chic. That way you can keep getting strange and she can too. The idea of just one woman for the REST OF YOUR LIFE is a tought one. Thats my thought on it. I always said I'd only marry a bi woman and I've been married for six years now. I know you don't like me streetracer,but think about it. We have had lots of fun and I've did **** most will only dream about.
#5
05-26-2007, 04:59 AM
Marry a bi chic. That way you can keep getting strange and she can too. The idea of just one woman for the REST OF YOUR LIFE is a tought one. Thats my thought on it. I always said I'd only marry a bi woman and I've been married for six years now. I know you don't like me streetracer,but think about it. We have had lots of fun and I've did **** most will only dream about.
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#8
05-26-2007, 03:43 PM
Here is an easy answer.
If you have thoughts for other women and would actually entertain the idea of messing around with another woman, then you should NOT be getting married.
The difference between a Wife and a Girlfriend is the Woman, not the title of her relation status.
You cant let the Terms Girlfriend, Fiancee or Wife dictate your level of commitment, instead your level of commitment should dictate thier relational status
If you have thoughts for other women and would actually entertain the idea of messing around with another woman, then you should NOT be getting married.
The difference between a Wife and a Girlfriend is the Woman, not the title of her relation status.
You cant let the Terms Girlfriend, Fiancee or Wife dictate your level of commitment, instead your level of commitment should dictate thier relational status
I don't think it could have been said any better than that. My fiance' have been together 7 years now, and every night is like the first night. Yes, it does help (I'm sure) that I am bi. But it truly depends on how strongly you feel about the person. I'm sure like any man he loves the fact that I'm bi, but we don't let it run our lives. If you don't think you can stay faithful to someone than just "date" people.
#9
05-26-2007, 08:33 PM
I don't think it could have been said any better than that. My fiance' have been together 7 years now, and every night is like the first night. Yes, it does help (I'm sure) that I am bi. But it truly depends on how strongly you feel about the person. I'm sure like any man he loves the fact that I'm bi, but we don't let it run our lives. If you don't think you can stay faithful to someone than just "date" people.
funny how life works...my main girl thinks i'm too proper and i need to loosen up a bit...i stifle a laugh because the night before i was wearin one girls thong on my head while i was spankin her friend...how come i cant be that way with my main girl...i'll probably lose her to a guy just like me while he loses his girl to me...and so it goes
#10
05-27-2007, 02:57 AM
elaborate...youre bi...do you consider yourself loyal to him?...you mention that youre bi in the context of your relationship so i'm assuming you guys allow a third to join every once in awhile....so what does that make your relationship? is it considered open? what level of commitment would that fall under?...i hope i dont sound too nosey...but its in the spirit of this thread...i've had 2 girls at once...but i would never consider doin that with my main girl....only with the side dishes...i just think it would cause way too many problems in a "relationship"
funny how life works...my main girl thinks i'm too proper and i need to loosen up a bit...i stifle a laugh because the night before i was wearin one girls thong on my head while i was spankin her friend...how come i cant be that way with my main girl...i'll probably lose her to a guy just like me while he loses his girl to me...and so it goes
funny how life works...my main girl thinks i'm too proper and i need to loosen up a bit...i stifle a laugh because the night before i was wearin one girls thong on my head while i was spankin her friend...how come i cant be that way with my main girl...i'll probably lose her to a guy just like me while he loses his girl to me...and so it goes
#11
05-27-2007, 06:11 AM
see i thought you were supposed to make love to the wifey and **** the side piece like a wild animal...anybody else ever rent a gorilla suit and tie a girl to a tree ala king kong?
#12
05-27-2007, 06:14 AM
scariest thing i ever saw on tv was the last episode of cheers when the coolest guy on tv ended up all alone...i think about that alot now
#13
05-27-2007, 07:12 AM
the best part about being with a bi chick is that she cant get mad at you for looking cuz she probably is too. lol ive had this discussion numerous times with my sorta girlfriend
#14
05-27-2007, 08:14 AM
They all like to be the **** once and awhile. God bless'em 
#15
05-27-2007, 09:39 AM
oh ok, I know now how you conservatives work....your all propper out in public and freaks behind closed doors! LMAO
#16
05-27-2007, 10:46 AM
well duh... at least conservatives keep the bedroom private. I don't know about you guys but one thing that really bugs me is hearing about other peoples sex lives. Be as big a deviant as you want (within reason) but for crap's sake keep your deviant behavior to yourself.
Now the drawback to the classic stereotypical conservative privacy in intimacy is that they tend to rail against people whos perversion is different. Who cares who likes what in what hole... just let em be you know.
this coming from a hard-core constitutional conservative, you can see where the lines between liberal conservative and reasonable cross.
Now the drawback to the classic stereotypical conservative privacy in intimacy is that they tend to rail against people whos perversion is different. Who cares who likes what in what hole... just let em be you know.
this coming from a hard-core constitutional conservative, you can see where the lines between liberal conservative and reasonable cross.
#19
05-27-2007, 08:22 PM
Exactly right! That's the way we look at. If both of us don't want it it's not done. Plus, there are "rules" (which we won't discuss here) with us when we decide to have a threesome. And yes on occasion we do the "make love", but the majority of the time it's wild, crazy throw your back out sex. It's great it keeps our relationship fresh and interesting. Just like don't always "do it" in the bedroom.
#20
05-27-2007, 08:37 PM
Exactly right! That's the way we look at. If both of us don't want it it's not done. Plus, there are "rules" (which we won't discuss here) with us when we decide to have a threesome. And yes on occasion we do the "make love", but the majority of the time it's wild, crazy throw your back out sex. It's great it keeps our relationship fresh and interesting. Just like don't always "do it" in the bedroom.
#21
05-28-2007, 04:12 PM
It depends on the couple. Most everone who plays has or had rules. It saves something for just them,like **** or no kissing. You get the idea.
#22
05-29-2007, 07:28 AM
ps did you guys hear that your risk of throat cancer increases if you eat out more than 6 girls in your lifetime...christ i'm a dead man
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/heal...p?newsid=70495
i may as well start smoking 10 packs a day
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