So not many of you know but my ex "fiance" and I broke everything off about a month ago. We dated for a long time and then got into a serious relationship which lasted over a year, we seperated, then we tryed getting back together and fixing things but it was just a giant drama mess so i pretty much told her i wanted things to end. Well to make things short, things with her and i ended, no problem, i know she still stalks me but thats not the point.

WELL, after i left things with her, another buddy who i thought was just a friend of mine, really stepped into the plate, and she got all over me, and i kindof took peoples advice and talked to her so that i could get my mind off my ex, well we have been talking for over a month, at first i was into her but now im really not, shes really concided and seems to have a lot of drama in her life, shes always calling me/texting me/leaving me messages and i can tell shes really all over me, well the thing is, i guess you can say it was my fault for giving her false hope in the beginning and acting as if i were into her, but now im really not, and when we talk now i have no interest in talking to her but i know that everytime i talk to her she just gets more attached to me because of stupid things and compliments i tell her which i dont really mean. I guess you can say when i talk to chicks im not a dick at all, well pretty much i dont want any relationship anytime soon, but i dont know how to tell her that because i have been friends with her for a while and I know if i tell her that I dotn want to date her she will get all bitchy and never talk to me again. So what to do.. I want to keep her as a friend but not much more. Sadly enough shes a thin hott blonde hair blue eye model too.

 

That deff sounds more proper then "**** off you gonareah infected *** chugger"

 

Luckily i did not. As much as I want too, i would of just felt guilty faking a relationship/love just to hit it. Shes TOOO into wanting a serious relatoinship and commitment. So when I think about it, its not really worth the hassel, faking a relationship just to hit it.

 

Come to think about it, I think shes a virgin too, so i deff wouldn't want the title of the guy who took her virginity was a guy who just ripped and dipped.

 

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Negative sir, The one i was engaged too i had hit it 3 times a day for more then a year.

After I left the one i was engaged with, ANOTHER one who was a close friend started macking into me and ****. And one that I dont want to get involved with.

 

Dude your thinking of a different girl, read it right, This is another chick, who i have been normal friends with, but since she found out that i broke up with my ex, shes trying to get into a relationship with me.

 

Thanks greg =)

 

Dude i was in a similar situation for about 2 months. This chick was married and had a kid too! she wanted me to be her boyfriend. Crazy psycho bitch.

Well, i tried everything. I tried to be nice, i tried to just be friends, i tried to tell her she needs to focus on her husband and make her own grass greener.
I tried being rude, then i tried being a total dick head, then i got downright nasty and hostile towards her.

NONE OF IT WORKED.

Only one thing worked.

I ignored her. I labeled her in my cell phone as "DO NOT ANSWER/RESPOND" so every time i got a text or call i'd remind myself not to answer or giv her any responce.

After about 2 weeks she finally gave up.

Just look at it like this, it is kind of like a dog. I have 2 dogs, the one thing that they absolutly can NOT stand is to be ignored. They would rather crap in the living room and have me yelling at them rather than to be ignoring them.

girls/stalkrs can be the same way. Every time you respond, even if it is a mean responce, she interperates it asd "Well, if he is responding then he cares enough to answer, im sure he will come around"

Just ignore her. Do NOT answer ANY of her messages no matter how high or drunk you may be. That is about the only thing that works, completly 100% stop responding to her and put her out off yer life.

good luck