that attracts us guys soo freaking much? as some of you know, my g/f of 2 years broke up with me (and this is a high school relationship, so that was forever lol) i made a lil promise to myself that i wouldnt fall for any girls until i graduated this year. low and behold, im falling for this fantastic girl. lol. she and i have so much more in common then my ex and i had. she cute, she's fun, she can sing and dance like no one i have ever seen.

i met her early october (begining of swimming season). be started talking and stuff, but nothing too serious. just kinda like: hey wats up, how's life kinda thing. then, 3 weeks ago, she and i started to talk a bit more.

its funny how things just kinda fall into place when it comes to some things. so far we went to see 300 together, and i asked her to go to the senior prom with me, just as friends at this point.

so, yea, i am once again in a predicament (sp?) that i am so confused about. wat is it about women that does this to us me?


and i can already see the nopixnocare post coming from MattJ

 

nopicsnocare haha thats exactly what i was thinking when I saw the title thread before clicking the link.


Dunno man, im kinda in the same situation. Just let it flow and see where it takes you.

 

yea, i pretty much called ya on that.



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happy matt? lol

 

Well id say shes hot but that might be illegal.

play it out and see where it goes. trying to make something work before its played out usually ends up in a disaster. just keep up with what you are doing. i dont know your intentions with her are but seems you are doing the right stuff so far.

 

its probably illegal for you cause your 20 or about to turn? im 18 turning 19 and she is only 2 years younger than i am.

its funny, when it comes to girls matt, you always seem to offer help. lol. that or PIIHB. lol

 

Im actually 24 in june... but whos counting. PIIHB doesnt work here either. thats also illegal in this situation.

 

really? i dont know who i am talking about then. lol. June is the best month by the way, cause thats my birth month too. lol 19

 

shes kinda cute if I was into 16 year olds. I dont know something about her photo maybe its the same expression....ehhh my advice player play other than that wait for college your gonna be like damn screw these little girls and graduate to serious booty.

 

eh, im not really into that ****. for being a senior in High School, i have never drank, done drugs, or had sex. and i am in no hurry to do any. the only thing that i have done is Smoke cigars/cigarellas (black and milds). i am a pretty sure i can stick to my values in college too.

 

just let things happen man.. i dated a girl for 3 years in highschool...broke up..met another girl (awesome thing is is that i wasn't even looking for a girlfriend) been with her for a little over 6 months..just let things fall into place

 

Good advice! Oh, and what is it about girls? ****, ***, and *****! Hey at least it shows you're not gay. You don't know what it is, but you know you like it.

 

You gotta just let things play out, but remember, things are a lot different when you get out of high school. Just wait until you see some of the girls in college, wow! I've known my gf for at least 12 years now, and we have been together almost 5. Its kinda weird to say, but she will be my first and last gf. We've been with other people, but we dated in 6th grade and that was a first for both. Anyways, good luck and May is the best month. Almost 25.

 

Girls are amazing things.

Shes a look man, congrats.

 

She's definately a cute one purestang. I'm also kinda in a predicament myself. I've been with my current girl for about 6 yrs...ever since we were seniors...she started working after we graduated while I chose to go to a college and work...however there are so many hot chicks at school it's not even funny. In particular this one chick that i've been talking which I posted about a few weeks back...(broke my bumper ..) that I'm very attracted to but I really don't want to since I love my girl very much...So it's a pretty gay situation I must say..but i'm not gonna woryy about it...I'm just gonna go with the flow and see what happens....

 

Wow, she looks really young. I mean, I'm only 20, but damn, she looks like she's 12! (all those girls do really)

 

Shes hot but I think its illegal to do her since your 19 (almost) and she is 16 or 17.

I mean she looks like it would be worth the risk but if you get caught, you may be the one being raped by bubba

 

In texas it's not considered statutory rape if the girl or the guy is not more than 3 yrs and 1 day older apart...I don't know about his state though...

 

here in PA, its 3-4 years. and i believe that if its 4 years, parent consent is required or something. one of my friends lil sisters is a sophmore in HS dating a freshman in college. lol


and whitethunder, she looks young in those pics, in real life she looks much older. she is very photogenic (sp?) tho i look like im 16. lol

 

she is really cute just go with the flow and see what happens.

 

I don't know why I thought that was so funny.

 

In Florida it's legit 16-24 but i'm still not gonna do it.....I cant believe were talking about this

 

I've heard "If there is grass on the field play ball" but not " If there is a field play ball''.

 

Jail Bait

 

well i went to the school play, for the third time (first was with my friend justin who was bored, second was cause my bro wanted to go, and third was to congragulate her on her performance.) out of all her guy friends that i hang out with as well, she pulled me aside to meet her father. not anyone else. just me.. hmm.......

o, and i got her flowers for after the play. lol. well, ive played my part, ill just let things flow

 

Welp there goes not "falling" for any girls.

 

Treat her with respect. She is still a child in the laws eyes. Don't try to jump her bones all at once. Just wait for the signals. You're 19 yrs old so you are a man now. She's 17? or even if she's 18 she still is a very young girl/woman.

But go ahead and fall in love cause that's very natural. Just keep it in the back of your mind that any serious partnership will most likely come later in your adult years. I fell in love at least 10 times before I found my true love. I've been married for 15 years now and I couldn't imagine life without my wife and my family. It gets better with age. But you should probably sow your wild oats first.. You got time on your side.. IMHO..