As you guys remember on my last post about girls I promised myself I would just focus on my car, and not pay attention to girls. Well I took a risk and broke that promise...

I'm going to try and make this as short as possible.

I am 19 years old. I asked this girl out last week. She is 17.Virgin, never really had a bf. She's one of those popular high school girls that all the guys jock (and she goes to a ghetto *** high school thats mostly black people). You guys remember those girls in high school... So anyways, I told her she should let me take her out sometime, and she said the only way that is going to happen was if I talked to her dad, got permission from him, and had her home on a "good hour". Her parents own a restaraunt out here in sac. So we make plans for Friday night. When friday comes around, I go to the mall, pick up a nice outfit, touch up the stang a little bit (by the way she was jockin my car lol), get my hair cut, all that good ****. So I go to the restaraunt and I call her when
I pull up. At this point I am scared ****less. She comes out and basically makes me go inside the restaraunt. I say hi to her parents, we sit down, (luckilly there was noone in the restaraunt besides them). It literally took me an hour and half to build up the ***** to ask her dad "is it ok if I take your daughter out?" He basically said it was up to her (I just had to ask as a sign of respect. Shes persian, if that makes any sense to any of you) So after a sweaty hour and half of torture we leave. Her dad said I had to have her home by 9 but she negotiated a bit and pushed it to 10. Long story short we have a very good time. She met a few of my buddies, got along with all of them. They all thought she was cool. She met my parents. We were eating dinner at Chili's and I ask.."do you think this is the start of a relationship?" She says "yeah I think so". She even told me she is going to have to tell everyone at her school that I am her fiance because she has told everyone that she's not allowed to have a bf unless shes going to marry him. All this bull****. She seemed legit, she didn't seem like the type of girl who would lie or say stuff she didn't mean. So 9:30 comes around, I stop by chevron to get gas, I take her home, kiss her on the cheek, say bye to her parents, all on a very good tone. I call her when I get home and ask her what her parents thought of me. She said her dad said he could tell I was a very sharp kid and I was very respectful. Her mom said basically the same. So i'm like cool, everything is perfect. Later on in the convo she says..."don't take this the wrong way, I had a very good time tonight, and I think we have something, but my parents think we should be friends for now until were SURE, and they're SURE. We can be BEST friends we can hang out ALL the time..just until they're SURE." At this point I am like wtf. I guess by SURE they mean SURE were guna get married, cuz her parents are really old fashioned like that. Anyhow, I told her I would take a shower and call her back. I didn't call her. The next day I didn't want to call her. I said to myself that it was over. I ended up calling her at like 8:30 lol. She picked up and was like hey whats up bla bla bla. She said she was at her sister's house and I asked if she wanted me to call her later. She said "umm yea call me a little later cuz my hands are kind of full right now". So I call her 2 and a half hours later like a dumbass. No answer. And she didn't call back. Last night I got drunk and passed out lol.

I'm not used to girls not paying attention to me. I'm usually the one blowing them off. I guess the tables turned on me here. I say i'm going to give it until the end of the day, if she calls me, then i'll see whats up, if not, then sorry bitch. Her loss.

The thing that confuses me is that every guy is on her nuts, when I was with her, her phone literally rang like 50 times, and it was all guys from her school calling her. She wouldn't pick up on any of them. She even let me answer the phone when this guy called and tell him to stop calling. I told that ****** where I was and he sounded all badass like he was going to come kill me and ****, the guy didn't even show up lol. She's got all these broke loser rejects around her (she lives in a ****ty area) I live in the most expensive part of samcramento, I got money, Good looking guy(not to sound cocky). Got a nice car, come from a good background, and im 2 years older than her. Wtf else could she want? I don't get it?? There is no logical explanation that I can think of as to why she isn't interested. My friend thinks shes trying to make me JOCK her by not paying attention to me because she's scared I will lose interest. I don't know. I'm ****ing confused. I know there are some people on here that don't like me, so I can expect criticizm, but tell me what you guys think. Sorry for the rant.






UPDATE





WOOOOO

she called me last night. apparently she left her phone at her sister's house and just got it back last night. so everything is cool. and im still pickin her up from school on thursday

so it turns out that i was trippin over nothing. i can tell shes interested and everything is cool



11/29 UPDATE


WTFFF

i call her last night. no answer. no call back.


whatever im done with this.

 

damn. i think id pass on that, i HATE drama and that just sounds like it could blow up in ur face... start of a relationship, fiance, best friend, then not talking? kinda wack. on the other hand, shes probably just buys w/ **** and cant talk, im the same as u and its happened to me before. personally, im gunna say shes not worth it. u guys dont have a relationship yet, so no feelings invested. keep her as a friend, maybe u guys will make great friends, but id say go for a diff chick.

oh, and on you poll you forgot PIIHB (springsstang)

 

"(and she goes to a ghetto *** high school thats mostly black people)", what whats up with that comment! but anyway....

I wouldnt be worried with her too much. Maybe she just has alot of guy friends?? And do you like her alot??

 

Nothing, I was just pointing it out so people get a better idea.

She does have a lot of guy friends, but they are all ugly ****. And I think I like her a lot...I mean, after all that stuff she said..I kinda got sucked in..

 

yea i guess well i mean keep her close, but dont get mad feelings into the relationship and all. just my input good luck with everything!

 

ur right bro

 

Didnt read a word you said, but PIIHB

 

ahh... there u are w/ that. lol

 

i woudl say leave her im in high school and theres nothign but drama with girls your graduated you dont need to go back to that high school drama . def go find someone else

from what u told us u should have no prob doing that

 

yeah, but all the girls my age are *****. either that or theyre ugly, and i would never be with a girl who has been ran through by a ****load of dudes. sorry im wierd.

 

nahh that makes sence. Then if u like her this much then persue her but just be ready for some bs down the road high school is prone to that

 

LOL slappy you man *****. Ok, I hate fat girls, dont take this as a put down or anything, but you seem to have a problem being mistreated by women (i.e. ignored). Maybe you would be doing a good thing for yourself to hang out with her for a while, its kinda like a, I cant have her, but enjoy being around her kinda thing. Might give you a newfound respect for peoples feelings. Maybe Im off base, but kinda a taste of your own medicine. Hope it works out for the best, and like springs said, PIIHB.

 

Alright, so you want to land the girl? Follow this and you will be set. I am Lebanese which is close to Persian and I have a lot of Persian friends, girls in general love attention but they hate it when a guy does not give them attention. Dont call her wait for her to call you, when you want to call, call one time not more than that. Be a gentle man but dont kiss her A**. Her parents especially her dads opinion is the most important to her. If you get in good with her dad then you are in with the girl. That is if she is really traditional, also her being a virgin is not strange. In there culture the girl usually waits till marrage to lose it. The more you ignore her the more she likes you and wants to get your attention. All girls try to make the guy jealous in crazy ways like talking to your friends and have all the phone calls. Her letting you answer her phone is a good sign but dont over step your boundry to soon. Dont question who calls, wait for her to tell you unless it seems comfortable. Even though she has a lot of freind she seems like she would be popular not anything more. Well good luck and let us know how it goes. If you need any advise or help dont hesitate to ask. By the way, she sound like a keeper. ALSO DO NOT TRY TO SHOW HOW MUCH YOU HAVE, ARABIC WOMEN HATE THAT. That is how you will lose her trust me, I know. You know what you are and what you have and so does she. Marcel

 

LoL sounds like you got everything she wants, sept maybe the 12" package!...if she's ghetto like that she probably gets around and just hasn't told you bout it. I'm sure she's snuck out the house or covered by being at a friends house, my boy bobby's been goin out with this persian chick for like 2 years now...she's a total freak, hot and total freak...but in the two years they have been going out, her parents haven't found out they are together...LoL thats freakin amazing...

 

nah shes a good girl. im glad everything is cool. i think i made her feel small because i over-impressed her.


i am supposed to pick her up from school this thursday and her school is GHETTO. if anyone ****s with my car they are going to get ****ed up lol.