So i saw this girl...
#31
09-09-2005, 01:09 AM
no joke man...baseball games are where it's at. we have a minor league team here (GO SIDEWINDERS) and that is a great date spot. Even if you don't like baseball it's still fun to go. It's not so loud that you can't hear each other...and also most games arn't that crowded so it's easy to hear. unless your going to a big league game like the yanks. Normally you can go to a minor league game for about 5-10 bucks. Major League can get expensive so i'd steer clear. I'd say either that or mini golf. Some people think that's cheesey but it's actually fun and you get to talk.
#32
09-09-2005, 09:43 AM
Awesome idea! I took a chic to a minor league game once and the good thing was you had something to talk about; if you ever didn't have something to say (awkward silent moments - we can all relate).
Shaker
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#35
09-09-2005, 11:53 AM
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Hmmm,,,, you have some real mixed advise here, some is good, some is bad.
First off, dont even bother trying to impress her, she will know yer trying, she would rather be impressed by who you are.
Take her to go do something You would enjoy, a place you are comfortable with, stay in your element! Make it casual at first, dont go laying on gobs of romance or she will think you just wanna get laid, you can be romantic without taking her to a highclass place. Just be a gentleman. Open the car door for her, when walking down a street with her stand between her and the street, and remember the first date fart hold. Stick with a good local sports bar, somewhere with pool and a good fun atmosphere, or whatever you are most comfortable with. Some place where you have some friends, ggirls like guys who have buddys and really like it when other people show you respect, gives her a good idea of the kind of guy you are.
Save the crap you normally wouldnt do for later, this is about you two getting to know eachother. It is probaably best she get a good glimpse of what yer really about and what you do. Save the mini golf for a few dates down the road.
Definatly dont mention the car, dont mention anything nice you have, she will see it and respect you more for not bragging. When i meet a girl i will actually kinda shy away from any subject about my car or house, mainly because i dont want to be seen as a braggart.
Also, remember, this is probably not the girl you will end up with, you will date many more later down the road.
And also, if she has a boyfriend, then leave her the hell alone. If she has a b/f and you talk to her and she gets to know you then you start hooking up and she dumps her boyfriend for you, can you ever really trust her? or will she end up doing the same to you down the road?
First off, dont even bother trying to impress her, she will know yer trying, she would rather be impressed by who you are.
Take her to go do something You would enjoy, a place you are comfortable with, stay in your element! Make it casual at first, dont go laying on gobs of romance or she will think you just wanna get laid, you can be romantic without taking her to a highclass place. Just be a gentleman. Open the car door for her, when walking down a street with her stand between her and the street, and remember the first date fart hold. Stick with a good local sports bar, somewhere with pool and a good fun atmosphere, or whatever you are most comfortable with. Some place where you have some friends, ggirls like guys who have buddys and really like it when other people show you respect, gives her a good idea of the kind of guy you are.
Save the crap you normally wouldnt do for later, this is about you two getting to know eachother. It is probaably best she get a good glimpse of what yer really about and what you do. Save the mini golf for a few dates down the road.
Definatly dont mention the car, dont mention anything nice you have, she will see it and respect you more for not bragging. When i meet a girl i will actually kinda shy away from any subject about my car or house, mainly because i dont want to be seen as a braggart.
Also, remember, this is probably not the girl you will end up with, you will date many more later down the road.
And also, if she has a boyfriend, then leave her the hell alone. If she has a b/f and you talk to her and she gets to know you then you start hooking up and she dumps her boyfriend for you, can you ever really trust her? or will she end up doing the same to you down the road?
#37
09-09-2005, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted by 4.6 Love
But shes hot..it would be a crime for me not to holler at her! 
However, if a guy knows she is with me and continues to hit on her and try to take her away, that is when it comes down to "Severe *** beating time" and i have to start kicking the crap out of somone. <grin>
Its all about respect. If she has a guy, she has a guy. Still talk to her, say hi, be friends, but stay off her and dont try to steal her, that is just low. If her relationship doesent work out then maybe she will give you a call when she dumps the guy.
Anyone here that Tuacka(sp?) commercial?
"For the guy who knows the time to get the girl's number is when her boyfriend is in the bathroom, here's a Tawaka"
Yeah, aand here is a tire iron across the bastards face for being disrespectful by thinking he can actually take my girl away.
I know im a dirtbag, but there are some low-life things that i wont even do, one of them is to try to steal another guys woman. Its all fun and dandy right? Wait untill it happens to you then lets see how cool it is.
Good luck with the chickie man!
#38
09-09-2005, 03:33 PM
The point is… don’t ask if she has a boyfriend – ask her out, if she then says she has a guy… sure hold off. However, you have let her know that you’re interested… and not a wimp. So when that relationship tanks… she knows who to talk to, but friends suck (just be polite and casual).
As for stealing her away… hell I’m game – it’s a tough world out there. If Slappy said one thing right it’s got to be, “this is probably not the girl you will end up with”. Just realize that and have a good time.
As for a sports bar (I didn’t offer since I have no idea how old you are); just remember it can’t be too loud. However, I would totally steer away from her meeting your friends on the first date. Your buddy might impress her more since he’s not out to get with her… or maybe he is?
Love to hear how it turns out, there’s a great deal of ideas here… but we all agree that you must be relaxed, be cool – and not a dork.
I reiterate…
Shaker
As for stealing her away… hell I’m game – it’s a tough world out there. If Slappy said one thing right it’s got to be, “this is probably not the girl you will end up with”. Just realize that and have a good time.
As for a sports bar (I didn’t offer since I have no idea how old you are); just remember it can’t be too loud. However, I would totally steer away from her meeting your friends on the first date. Your buddy might impress her more since he’s not out to get with her… or maybe he is?
Love to hear how it turns out, there’s a great deal of ideas here… but we all agree that you must be relaxed, be cool – and not a dork.
I reiterate…
Originally Posted by Shaker242
“Although - you can ignore everything I've said and wing it - We've got your back either way!”
#40
09-09-2005, 07:41 PM
Shaker has like 50 pages of advise and i am triing to get with some chick that is bangin and his advise actually helps! Thanks
#41
09-09-2005, 08:49 PM
shaker since you are giving out all this good advice.. I also have this girl in my class i cant get my mind off of ..except when im working on my car of course Anyway i have only like discussed school things with her, how would you go about asking her out? I have no idea what to say to her
Anyway i have only like discussed school things with her, how would you go about asking her out? I have no idea what to say to her
#42
09-09-2005, 09:31 PM
dude...I get in that situation alot, but the important thing is to make sure they know youre cool with being friends first. So you just think of a reason/excuse to ask her to get lunch. Do you go to college? If so, then its easy to say "hey lets get luinch after class".. OR if theres a subject she needs help in, then offer your assistance. If a girl has any interst at ALL, she will take you up on your offer. However, you can know she's not intersted if you offer, and she has a way to contact you...and she never does...
I'm good at stuff like that, though that may surprise you all...
I'm good at stuff like that, though that may surprise you all...
#43
09-10-2005, 12:15 AM
I reckon I've been out of the dating scene too long. Some good advice going on in here. But I will say, Have you looked for any hints that she likes YOU? Have you caught her looking? You didn't elaborate on that. If not, make her notice you. I met my wife at work and I used to make her notice me.this was late 80's but it may still work. She would walk to the restrooms and I would stop her and talk to her. She called me a troll cause I told her she couldn't go past my work area without talking to me, and stuff like that. She got a kick out of it. and so did I. Cause I knew right when I saw her I was in love. Knotted stomach and all. We were both in relationships that weren't working out. So I probably got lucky. My wife is my soulmate now and I can't imagine things without her. Love is a powerful thing.
Anyway just make sure she has a hint of interest before you pursue her too much. GL man.
Anyway just make sure she has a hint of interest before you pursue her too much. GL man.
#44
09-10-2005, 08:13 AM
Originally Posted by rebelyell
I reckon I've been out of the dating scene too long. Some good advice going on in here. But I will say, Have you looked for any hints that she likes YOU? Have you caught her looking? You didn't elaborate on that. If not, make her notice you. I met my wife at work and I used to make her notice me.this was late 80's but it may still work. She would walk to the restrooms and I would stop her and talk to her. She called me a troll cause I told her she couldn't go past my work area without talking to me, and stuff like that. She got a kick out of it. and so did I. Cause I knew right when I saw her I was in love. Knotted stomach and all. We were both in relationships that weren't working out. So I probably got lucky. My wife is my soulmate now and I can't imagine things without her. Love is a powerful thing.
Anyway just make sure she has a hint of interest before you pursue her too much. GL man.
Anyway just make sure she has a hint of interest before you pursue her too much. GL man.
#45
09-10-2005, 08:23 AM
Originally Posted by faststangbk
shaker since you are giving out all this good advice.. I also have this girl in my class i cant get my mind off of ..except when im working on my car of course Anyway i have only like discussed school things with her, how would you go about asking her out? I have no idea what to say to her
Anyway i have only like discussed school things with her, how would you go about asking her out? I have no idea what to say to herI’d recommend coming clean, “you know… I really dig you, how about we go grab some coffee after class?”
(Therefore if she turns you down, it’s… “okay, that’s cool… but next time you’re buying ha ha ha…”) This will put the mood back on your friendship and not on the fact that either one of you are uncomfortable. Hence providing you some protection since you never committed to a “date”…
The idea here is to keep her on her toes and CYA... during class she'll be thinking about this and at the same time consider the possibility of her being with you. Again, I’m a true advocate for keeping it simple… and talking on your first outing. Use some of the other advice here too, the zoo… baseball game etc. Any place you can still talk and focus on her. Coffee shops are best since their nothing else going on to distract you both, but if you’re nervous at all… other activities are better.
I'd stay away from college lunch rooms since either one of you could bounce into friends and ex's that could make this first outing unpleasant.
Shaker
#47
09-10-2005, 10:13 AM
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pfft... this forum has became DateTuning not MustangTuning.
And seriously, one thing that always worked for me, Dont talk to chicks like you like them, dont be all nice to them, just be yourself. Chicks dont like soft guys that are all polite because then they seem like they have more power and that you are softer then them. I use to always talk to all the chicks in my classes and not give a ****, i wouldn't act like i liked them and they would always invite me to their house gettys. Chicks like guys that are hard to get. You gotto play "hard to get", especially if you get a girls number, dont call her that day, call her like 2 or 3 days later. Trust me it works. When chicks use to ask me "Hey you want to chill this weekend", I wouldn't just be like "OK WHAT DAY AND WHAT TIME!", I use to be like "i'll see whats up and get back to", You gotto act like you dont want to put them on top of all your plans. Play hard to get.
The first time i took my chick out, I took her to a pool hall, Because its just like a Lounge place we could talk while doing something entertaining. We had drinks and played pool and she sucked at pool so i was just teaching her how to play pool and she had a blast.
And yeah, id stay away from kiddie places on a first date. Many chicks just dont like to be seen at like carnivals or zoos, take her to a lounge or club
And seriously, one thing that always worked for me, Dont talk to chicks like you like them, dont be all nice to them, just be yourself. Chicks dont like soft guys that are all polite because then they seem like they have more power and that you are softer then them. I use to always talk to all the chicks in my classes and not give a ****, i wouldn't act like i liked them and they would always invite me to their house gettys. Chicks like guys that are hard to get. You gotto play "hard to get", especially if you get a girls number, dont call her that day, call her like 2 or 3 days later. Trust me it works. When chicks use to ask me "Hey you want to chill this weekend", I wouldn't just be like "OK WHAT DAY AND WHAT TIME!", I use to be like "i'll see whats up and get back to", You gotto act like you dont want to put them on top of all your plans. Play hard to get.
The first time i took my chick out, I took her to a pool hall, Because its just like a Lounge place we could talk while doing something entertaining. We had drinks and played pool and she sucked at pool so i was just teaching her how to play pool and she had a blast.
And yeah, id stay away from kiddie places on a first date. Many chicks just dont like to be seen at like carnivals or zoos, take her to a lounge or club
#48
09-10-2005, 03:25 PM
Take her to a Dashboard Confessional concert and she will be yours...
Just don't forget English when you talk to her, I had that problem when I was in school. When you get older and live with them a while you realize that most chicks are nothing to be nervous about. They are basically slobs like us but just hide it better. They all scratch their crotch and fart and burp and leave dirty panties on the floor. Hell, if she doesn't say much to ya, she may just be nervous talking to you!
Whoever left the comment in the smack talk forum about a "stink pickle" -that is the best poop reference i have ever heard. "lawn cigar" is my 2nd fav...
Just don't forget English when you talk to her, I had that problem when I was in school. When you get older and live with them a while you realize that most chicks are nothing to be nervous about. They are basically slobs like us but just hide it better. They all scratch their crotch and fart and burp and leave dirty panties on the floor. Hell, if she doesn't say much to ya, she may just be nervous talking to you!
Whoever left the comment in the smack talk forum about a "stink pickle" -that is the best poop reference i have ever heard. "lawn cigar" is my 2nd fav...
#49
09-10-2005, 04:00 PM
Originally Posted by 1FastGT
pfft... this forum has became DateTuning not MustangTuning.
#50
09-10-2005, 04:26 PM
after being away from avaliable females for about 4 months its like i forgot on how to communicate with them. hopefully when i get home it wont be so bad and it will come back to me pretty fast. i plan on getting some pun-tang the same day i get home from the desert. i keep telling people that it is time to get something serious again. do you think it can be done? im in the military and i just got orders to leave dover delaware next april and as of now im in iraq. what are my chances of finding a chick that will stick by myside tell i leave. im 21, i was married for a short time to this chick i dated for 4 years in high school. i been single for the past year and a half. should i just keep knocking down the random chick every weekend or find a steady peice thats worth my time?
#53
09-13-2005, 09:50 AM
Well, as it turns out, she has a boyfriend and as my suspicions predicted, the focker that sits next to her turns out to be the one! I asked her yesterday before i headed of to work from school and got the bad news!...fawk!!!! 
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#55
09-13-2005, 10:12 AM
but did u really talk to her much? When you say you liked her...was it more physical? or were there times u talked to her and started liking her personality? I'm just curious bc I find myself starting to like girls only based on looks when their personalities may suck big time. ya never know!
#56
09-13-2005, 11:08 AM
Originally Posted by BannyB785
but did u really talk to her much? When you say you liked her...was it more physical? or were there times u talked to her and started liking her personality? I'm just curious bc I find myself starting to like girls only based on looks when their personalities may suck big time. ya never know!
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#58
09-13-2005, 01:19 PM
Originally Posted by StangGT804
sorry 4.6 love!! No "love" for you! Bu you got all year, so dont worry about it!! lol
so true! No matter what classes you have, there are always ways to meet other people. Even when there are no attractive girls in your classes, there's always the library, lunchroom(or area of eating), study areas, hallways(some girl random conversations), or afterschool events like clubs, sports, etc. Not to mention that(and dont laugh) that myspace and sites similar really are cool places to meet people. In total, from the internet(including aol, myspace, and other sites), I think I've met over 20 girls. Not that many of them lasted too long, but theyre all interesting experiences. And I still talk to a good bunch and am good friends with a few. So it just all depends on what youre willing/able to do in terms of pursuing girls. Good luck with everything.
sincerely,
BannyB785
#59
09-13-2005, 02:00 PM
Originally Posted by 4.6 Love
Well, as it turns out, she has a boyfriend and as my suspicions predicted, the focker that sits next to her turns out to be the one! I asked her yesterday before i headed of to work from school and got the bad news!...fawk!!!! .. .... ..
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