First off my morals are completely out the window because i'm talkin to a chick that is engaged to some marine...first off the dude sucks and plays WoW with his dungeon & dragon COMM nerd friends. i dont really care i leave germany in 4 months and cant start a relationship with anyone at this point in my life anyway. i look at it as saving this chick from a mistake...

anyway bout tonight...few days ago she kicked ol gung hoe nerd out her house because she needs time away from the guy. she gave him the boot because she was talkin to me on the phone for a lil bit and i guess an arguement started which ended with her calling me to come to my house at like 1230. i was half awake half asleep dream state so i said ok...next thing i knew i had cold feet waking me up! i didnt talk to her after that morning till the next day which was last night when she told me that she finally had the house to herself...i asked if she wanted to chill. she said she needed to be alone for the night to collect herself but she would make it up tonight...well, tonight is here and has passed and im here on this board letting you in on part of my life of shenanigans. i wasnt blown off or anything she was invited by some of her friends to go out to ladies night at a club. she asked me if she should go...i told her if i didnt have to work tomorrow i would definately be in a bar or club using up my free time off from work. once i told her that it was like 8 pm she said she was going to come over when she was done gettin ready and before she went to pick up her friends at the dorms. they were all supposed to meet at 1030. i watched a movie did my lil at home work out routine and before i knew it it was 1030 and no phone call, LOL. ****, i got played right!

right when i was about to hop in the shower i heard foot steps in my downstairs living room and to my surprise it was her stopping by to see me. she brought me a pre-paid SIM card that i needed for this cell phone i bought to replace the one i lost over 2 months ago. ****, i was expecting a phone call that would of been good enough...

so, what does this mean? i only been talkin to her for the past 2-3 weeks...she is 21 and engaged to a nerd who she has only known for the past 9 months or so...

i do not live on the way to base for her she went out of her way, LOL. UH OH

i may regret posting this ****...but should be fun!

 

get work done...

 

Uh, maybe she has morals and knows that talking to you the way she was is wrong since she is engaged.

 

work is gettin done

she says that all the time but still calls me back...guess i was good enough for a call-back. i feel bad to a point and i tell my friends "man, i knew i should of made the first time suck"

 

Dude, don't stress the issue. She's engaged, you can't expect her to just up and leave the person she's engaged to for a little fling. You're over thinking this whole situation. Just back off and give her her space and let her decide who she wants to be with....

 

LOL
guy, you got it all wrong...i dont initiate. i play more of a facilitator role

 

Do work, son.

 

Still, put yourself in the other guys shoes and don't do anything you wouldn't mind having done to you....you know, that whole treat others how you would like to be treated mentality.

 

PICS

 

i try to imagine myself doing that but there is just no connection. i'll see what happens in the next week or so...

 

dude, GTFO out of that guys sandbox.

they are engaged. period. If she is getting cold feet and wants out of the relationship that is her perrogative, but have enough self respect not the be "That Jackass".

i realize she may not be into this guy, but none the less he is into her and if she is gonna dump him she needs to grow the **** up and do it, not sit there and play stupid games with him but messing around with somone else.

trust me, if you were in that guys shoes you would hate yourself too.

 

these are words that i told her...i think she is makin a mistake at 21 to marry a 27 year old who is a recall back into the marines. i think this guy is trying to get that precious dependent ID. i only know one side and i do see that she tries to pull the manipulative role on me but im immune to that ****.

why im sticking around...i dont know, just bein an *** hole i suppose.

i have been down this road and yes its a two way street. **** sucks...i spent 4 months deployed 5 months back at home just to leave for a year to korea. yeah i dealed with the cheating spouse.

 

nothing wrong with being an ******* at times haha

 

All girls are ******, do what ever the hell you want to her and then leave!

 

Bitch, I will cut you!

Stanger, how do you know that he is a nerd? Do you know him personally or just from things she is telling you?

 

Give her the good ol hit-n-run

 

Been there done that. I don't trust women in general when it comes to not being a *****. No offense towards you at all just every girl I ever dated I didn't trust a single one of them. I have a lot of girl friends and they do some wild ****. Stuff that makes you wonder what your old lady might be up too.

 

dustin dont you have a gf?

 

yea he does, but i honestly couldnt see her doing anything without dustins approval.