yeah but we dont want to do our own thing.

her mom said no again today.

im aggravated at this point.

its her springbreak, she stayed out an hour late cause she thought her parents knew it was springbreak and they would be ok with it. the past 3 days she has been just in her room either sleeping or crying, today was the first time she even went outside the house.

i want to really be with her and a future with her, but if her parents are going to be like this and if she is going to be grounded this weekend too.

im going to just say F*ck it, when her parents are home in going over there and returning w/e she has gotten me and taking back all the stuff i got her and forgetting the past 10months. totally not what i want to do and it would be the last thing i would do but if i have to then yeah

she has said if we would both agree on it we would just breakup and wait till she's 18. but idk at this point

just confused.

they have done this crap before for no reason too.

ohwell each time they do it they are just pushing her more into my arms. she asays over and over that she cant wait till she's 18. she said she didnt care where she went aslong as she was out of there. she doesnt even want to live anywhere near her family.

 

duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

 

1) Perhaps she should have ASKED before she just assumed she could stay out late.2) You would really break up with a girl you like that much because her parents grounded her for another week? Wow.

 

Just get over it. It's one damn week. You knew she was grounded for the week so why keep posting that her mom said no again. We get it, she's grounded for the whole spring break. Deal with it and just wait. You guys are just causing more problems if you consistently ask if she can go out. Her parents are probably getting irritated as would I. Just give it a rest and see how thigns turn out.

 

this thread and all it's high school drama is very entertaining.
+1 for this thread

 

Well it's not all about high school. Remember the contributing member dropped out.

 

well her parents went to work this morning. i was there for 7 hours today

 

Dude, You are not helping the situation you're in by being at her house all day while they're at work. They may or may not find out. But why risk it. If you love her enough and she loves you then you should think about the future a little bit. You will have a strained realtionship with your "future inlaws",. That will be a problem for years to come and will cause a strain on your realtionship with your girl, Believe me you must not throw caution to the wind while she lives with her parents, They have rules that you and her are now breaking. Not a good thing. Not trying to bust your chops, but you should probably lay very low for a while.. Don't push her parents to ban you completely. Think about the long run bro..

 

Sneaking over there when they aren't home when they have told you not to be there is horrible. You have already told yourself if she gets grounded longer you would dump her (Which I find pretty laughable, you say you can't stand not being around her, but if you get her in trouble you would dump her) what's going to happen if one of them leaves work early? Comes home for lunch? Gets to work and realizes they forgot something they needed that day and come home to get it? What if they want to just come home and make sure you aren't there?

 

so she's still grounded and its saturday and like 60degrees out. its been like 35 allweek.

so her mom called her from work and she didnt pickup her cellphone and then she called her back and her mom was like "what are you doing?" and she said " nothing, just wokeup" then her moms like " you need a life" . she would ahve one if she wasnt grounded.

 

Are we still beatin this "DEAD HORSE"

Chalk it up as a life lesson and move on to make things better. It aint the end of the world.

 

kids get grounded and parents do worse things if they disobey again. it happens, live with it doooooooooood