New Developments in my crazy life.
#1
10-24-2006 | 04:47 PM
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New Developments in my crazy life.
Im gonna be a daddy.
lol.....
I am pretty stoked.... but im also absolutly TERRIFIED....
Been with this girl 2 months. thats all.... just 2 months....
we discussed this last night once she found out. The various alternatives.
She just told me she wants to keep it. Im in 100% too.
so, right now im really freaked out. Probably just because this was so unexpected. But hey, i'm 29, got a good job, got a house. **** it. why not eh? Might as well settle down and try out the family thing. better thank drinking myself to an early grave.
No were not getting married. Not yet, we will get married later on if things continue the way they are, but im not going to marry cause of a kid. i will only marry for Love or Insurance reasons. LMAO
The only thing i wish is that we were together longer. I am so crazy about this girl, i have a habit of walling women out of my heart. Lot of girls dumped me cause i refused to let them in. She waltzed on through like the walls werent even there. She is absolutly awesome.
Please, dont bother with the "you sure its yours?" and "keep-a-***** baby" and all that. Not interested in hearing it.
man i know nothing about kids..... kids scare the hell out of me. the only time ive been around little children is when i was a little child myself....
this is gonna be interesting to say the least..
still havent told my family.... they havent even met her yet... ugh.... gee i cant WAIT to see how that goes. lol
now to see if i can pull this off and still keep the mustang..... 480 bucks a month extra would be nice though...
lol.....
I am pretty stoked.... but im also absolutly TERRIFIED....
Been with this girl 2 months. thats all.... just 2 months....
we discussed this last night once she found out. The various alternatives.
She just told me she wants to keep it. Im in 100% too.
so, right now im really freaked out. Probably just because this was so unexpected. But hey, i'm 29, got a good job, got a house. **** it. why not eh? Might as well settle down and try out the family thing. better thank drinking myself to an early grave.
No were not getting married. Not yet, we will get married later on if things continue the way they are, but im not going to marry cause of a kid. i will only marry for Love or Insurance reasons. LMAO
The only thing i wish is that we were together longer. I am so crazy about this girl, i have a habit of walling women out of my heart. Lot of girls dumped me cause i refused to let them in. She waltzed on through like the walls werent even there. She is absolutly awesome.
Please, dont bother with the "you sure its yours?" and "keep-a-***** baby" and all that. Not interested in hearing it.
man i know nothing about kids..... kids scare the hell out of me. the only time ive been around little children is when i was a little child myself....
this is gonna be interesting to say the least..
still havent told my family.... they havent even met her yet... ugh.... gee i cant WAIT to see how that goes. lol
now to see if i can pull this off and still keep the mustang..... 480 bucks a month extra would be nice though...
#9
10-24-2006 | 05:44 PM
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Joined: Dec 2004
Posts: 10,237
Hey man usually im against kids but you really have the perfect situation to raise a kid into. I mean you are financially secure, have a nice house, nice job, ect... Mustangs are pretty much a no-baby kind of ride so you may have to ditch your beater and get something better to scoot your family around town in.
good luck...
good luck...
#11
10-24-2006 | 06:11 PM
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Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 395
Congratulations Jack and I admire you and your gf for doing the right thing. Kids are great. My wife of 17 yrs and I just had our 4th kid. I started when I was 25 and I'm just now finishing up at 40. lol. <insert Lance joke here>
You will make a good dad as you seem like a pretty level headed dude.
oh .. yea.. if you think the stang payment is rough.. wait till you price daycare!
F*cking OUCH!!
You will make a good dad as you seem like a pretty level headed dude.
oh .. yea.. if you think the stang payment is rough.. wait till you price daycare!
F*cking OUCH!!
#12
10-24-2006 | 06:14 PM
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Congratulations Jack and I admire you and your gf for doing the right thing. Kids are great. My wife of 17 yrs and I just had our 4th kid. I started when I was 25 and I'm just now finishing up at 40. lol. <insert Lance joke here>
You will make a good dad as you seem like a pretty level headed dude.
oh .. yea.. if you think the stang payment is rough.. wait till you price daycare!
F*cking OUCH!!
You will make a good dad as you seem like a pretty level headed dude.
oh .. yea.. if you think the stang payment is rough.. wait till you price daycare!
F*cking OUCH!!
OUCH!
#13
10-24-2006 | 06:22 PM
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AHHHHH CRAP.
welp. I was talking about this to my brother. he said best bet is to let my parents meet her (yeah thats right, they have not met her yet) then a few days later tell them about it.
i thought that was pretty good advice.
my girlfriend already told her mom. I havent met her, but from what i hear about her and her mom this is not a good thing.....
lol....
i guess she is super religious and is very paranoid about the government and a little bit kooky.
this is gonna be fun
welp. I was talking about this to my brother. he said best bet is to let my parents meet her (yeah thats right, they have not met her yet) then a few days later tell them about it.
i thought that was pretty good advice.
my girlfriend already told her mom. I havent met her, but from what i hear about her and her mom this is not a good thing.....
lol....
i guess she is super religious and is very paranoid about the government and a little bit kooky.
this is gonna be fun
#18
10-24-2006 | 09:06 PM
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Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 5,796
From: Downingtown/West Chester, PA
congrats man...id be freaking out if i were in ur place...(and the fact that im 18 and still in highschool would be anther reason)
i was lookin at the pics and then i get to your sig pic...lmao
i was lookin at the pics and then i get to your sig pic...lmao
#20
10-24-2006 | 09:12 PM
Always Detailin'
Joined: Oct 2005
Posts: 3,556
From: Dayton, OH
Good luck bro!! Even though terrified, sounds like your excited too. Definately a good thing!
