WTF is with women? Has some virus that only attacks women ravaged our female population into a bunch of brainless half wit text messaging zombies?

Yeah, so you all know the wife cheated on me, still working on that divorce, it is costing me an arm and a leg but hey, we have been at it 8 months. I wanted some female companionship, i enjoy being in a relationship.

so i have a garage sale right, and some hot blonde number shows up, buys some stuff, then leaves, comes back, and asks for my number and invites me to a BBQ. Cool right?

so that was about 5 weeks ago. Things have been going great, she is 5ft nothing, 115 lbs, size 1, fun, smart, sexy, and is totally into me! She has a kid, no biggie, i have one too. She tells me this bullshit about how she is so glad we met, that she lost faith in men because they are all a bunch of jerks and she is so happy to meed me cause im such a blah blah blah (reads "Not a douchebag"). Things are great!

Except, WTF is with the texting? I do it sure, but she will NOT answer her phone. She only texts. in the 5 weeks we have been seeing eachother i have spoken to her on the phone 4 times. I know her schedule, i know her routine, im pretty sure im the only guy she is seeing.

Anyways, she knows im in a divorce, this is NOT a secret, she got upset when i wouldnt introduce her to my wife who i am currently walking on eggshells around because right now she is agreeing to a settlement that wont completely **** me over six ways from sunday. And she is mad cause im not telling my wife about her? Are you ******* kidding me? Hell no, once the divorce is final sure why the hell not. But untill then i dont want to risk losing my house and not being able to provide for my son because she got vindictive and the courts allowed her to drop a financial nuclear ******* bomb on my life.

so everything has been smooth the last few weeks, except yesterday she wouldnt respond to me much. just "im fine" and crap like that

anyways,. so last night i get a call right from "stacy" right, she said she met me at the bar i gave her my card, she wanted to meet up. Yeah right. I saw right through that **** like a sheet of freshly windexed glass. It was her friend, calling me from a blocked number trying to see what i would do. So i was polite and played along, said ive been seeing somone for over a month now and that im sorry but i wasnt interested and to have a nice night.

that **** pisses me off. im big on honesty, i dont cheat, and what did i just see? a lack of faith in my integrity when i have done nothing to warrant that!

anyways this morning i called her out on it, said i diddnt appreciate it and i could always pull the call logs since i work for the phone company and she fessed up and said she wouldnt do it again.

so i figure no biggie. she asked me for a CD of photos she left at my place, i dropped it off for her in her mailbox cause she was at work, she diddnt respond when i texted her, oh, same **** as yesterday. So i ask her about an hour or so later if everything was ok between us and another hour no response, where she normally responds within a ******* nanosecond. So i ask if the lack of response actually the answer. She says she is real busy.

**** me.

TEXT MESSAGING IS NOT A VALID FORM OF COMMUNICATION

Anyways now i have no clue whats going on, but im sick and ******* tired of having a relationship with a girl that is based off text messaging when we are not together. Im not ******* happy of some immature 16 year old "test" of my faithfulness.

women really **** me off. im convined that 90% of them are retarded, of the 10% that are left 7 of them have daddy issues, and 2 cannot be trusted, and the last one just doesent exist!

**** me

anyways thats my rant.

 

**** sucks, I'm sorry and hopefully it's just something else she's not telling you. I haven't been dating for years and still kind of not. Unless I know for a fact I found the right girl.
Texting thing, I'm the same way with your girl, but if it's something important I'd rather talk on the phone or in person about.
Text Messaging can be mislead and taken the wrong way. Plus sometimes it could be someone else, unless your like me and don't let anyone use your Cell Phone. haha
I used to go through like 20k text messages a month, but not anymore. LOL

 

Well at this point its more of a general level of frustration,

"Im sorry Amanda, ive reviewed your position here at Chris Inc, im afraid things arent working out, please gather your personal belongings and you will recieve a letter of reccomendation in the next 3 to 5 business days"

 

I think that is the best thing for you right now. You got a lot on your plate and all you need is a girl (not a woman) add to the list of things frustrating your life. Bitch's come and go, so tell this one to get to stepping. Good luck, and hope **** gets better for you man

 

I'm confused, why did she test you by having her friend call? Was she thinking you only wanted her as a secret or something?? It's totally understandable why you wouldn't want her near the current divorce going on.

I agree about the texting. That **** pisses me off sometimes. I don't understand how some people honestly think it's a good idea to have deep or serious conversations through text. Some things are better left off to real conversations, texts can be always be taken way out of context.

 

Thats dead on about the texting.

The "test" thing just kind of ticket me off because it was a dishonest move and it was somewhat insulting that they thought i was dumb enough to fall for it. We have been seeing eachother maybe 5 weeks, and if she would have put any time in to really getting to know me then she would know that she doesent need to do that stuff.

Like i said, im not crying, moping, or heartbroken, im just real annoyed, this isnt the kind of stuff i should put up with. lol

 

If you've ever had a girl who does nothing but call you every 25 minutes or talks your ear off, you'd appreciate texting.

 

She sounds like she can be really immature about most things. That would **** me off constantly. This chick has a kid, but she sounds like she is the one who needs to grow up lol.

 

rofl. either nail her and tell her bye, or just tell her bye.

You're too old to be playing the "friend call you and try to get you for something you didn't do" trick. ****'s like..highschool..

And the texting things is beyond retarded. Run Jack, run fast.

 

Girls suck in general.

 

I can't stand to be around people, trying to have a conversation, who can't put their phone down, constantly texting. My neighbor is like that, 20 y.o. girl, dumb as a box of rocks, constanly entangled in some kind of highschool-esque drama. My buddy and I were talking just the other day coming back from a baseball game; How is it, that a lot of our friends were married, had kids, divorced, and re-married before they were 25? That kind of crap shouldn't happen until your 40. It's because they are not mature, but think they are.

/rant

Ditch this girl man.

 

im the scumbag they always talk about lol my moto is **** em and leave em ,you keep them around for an extended time period they all amount to a ****** headache.

 

and she is the kind of chick that drives good decent folk like me into being guys like you, then turns around and bitches about there not being any good guys.

 

yeah had my fair share of chics like that they seem to always **** on the good guy!got tired of it dude when you see dudes treat them like **** and they love them ,but when you try to be a mans man a true kind hearted gentlemen it seems like they try to rip your heart out and throw it on the ground and spit on it.

 

I always thought it was some fucked up joke by nature.

"GUESS WHAT! YOU! YES YOU! YOU GET TO BE A GUY!!!! YAAAYYY!!!
Know what that means?
You get to hang out with dudes, and its ******* great, you have great times, high fives, go drink beers and play pool, you get to play sports with guys and shoot guns and build **** and play with hammers and wrenches and power tools and you get paid more! The guys you get to hang out with are cool ************* who got yer back! They use logic and reason and guys are FUN to chill with!

YEAH!

However, YOU WILL BE ATTRACTED TO WOMEN!!!!

This means that you have to put up with thier illogical unstable nerotic assed crazyness! You get to wait 2 hours for them to get ready! And they will suck your wallet dry! And they change thier minds every 8 ******* seconds! And yeah, if you say the wrong thing then buddy, you aint getting laid for a week! And if you dont say the wrong thing, they will run it through thier heads untill they decide it WAS the wrong thing by twisting it around, and no sex for two weeks! And if you marry them, they get to help themselves to everything you have worked so hard for, even if they cheated on you!

And you get to keep going back again and again and again! because you will like thier smiles, laughs, butts, ****, toes, legs, and you wont be able to help yourself! you will be a mindless self punishing zombie!"


I mean seriously, WTF?

lol...

 

Lmao. That is sadly true in so many ways....

 

Yeah...this girl sounds like an idiot. Ditch the bitch.



After you plow her, of course.

 

lifes a ************ and then you die

 

I send/receive about 6k txt messages a month..

 

I text a lot, and find it very useful. It is used in the wrong way a lot though. Inflection is key in a "real" conversation. So dont try to have one via text message. Thats how I see it.

Jack, that chick needs to grow the **** up... next...

 

Ok Jack. You really need to get this divorce behind you. 1st priority there no doubt. As far as new girl is concerned, DON'T sweat it bro. Just go with the flow and do what you always wanted to do. She sounds to be a lot younger than you, and probably immature, (testing you proves that). But don't try and figure her out. You know that won't work.

She obviously likes you and is interested, so use that to your advantage. If she brings up the divorce thing again, tell her it's work in progress and you are not a free man till it happens and finalized. Be the boss on that note..

Don't even fall in love with this one, as lot's of men tend to do, escpecially because you ARE still on the rebound from your wife's prior behavior, I know I would be.

Take it slower maybe and stay in touch with her, but at the same time, act like either way you could give a **** more or less if you don't talk to her. Kinda like dating has always been, last time I tried that way of life.. And remember, you got lot's of time to find someone else. OH yeah, and NAIL her for sure at least once or it don't count..

 

The most common text message that I send is "I will call you later"


as for the girl I hate to tell you to play mind games but distance yourself a bit.

1. if she gets all bitchy because you aren't paying attention to her she isn't worth your time

2. if she decides she is missing out and makes contact tell her straight up you like her but hate drama and have no time for it.

Tell her that she needs to realize that you are a stand up guy and you will treat her great like she deserves (if she does) but you have zero tolerance for pointless issues and **** like that.

If you can tell her all that and she gets it you have yourself a keeper if not then she isn't worth your time

 

Sounds to me like shes very insecure.

But also sounds to me like you txt, and try to get in touch with her often which may be bothering her "personal space"

It looks like shes shunning you because she thinks you have things hidden, or either she found out something she doesnt like about you now that shes spent more time with you.

Girls are tough to crack, but once you figure them out they are all the same!!!

All I can say is, avoid contacting her in any way for awhile, and if shes thinking about you she'll come back around saying hey whats been going on or what have u been doing, or either say nothing at all and run away.

 

I hate talking on the phone, but if it's something serious, then ya I'll do it. My wife always complained why I don't just call my good friend who lived like 6 hours away. Half the time I'm just asking if he saw this new movie, or played this game and whatnot. Nothing serious, so why call for 2 seconds. I'll text my wife like what do you want for dinner and such, but thats about it. The serious stuff needs to be over the phone or in person.

And BikerSk8trkid, 20K text messages in a month? Thats beyond ridiculous.

 

just bone her and walk.

 

Agreed you better be exagerating cause thats 1 txt every 2 minutes for an etire month

 

She definitely sounds very immature. Being I girl, I would guess she had her friend call to see if you are one of those party/club go-ers who go out, get trashed, meet girls, bone them then leave. With that being said, it's a very immature way of her trying to find out if you are a douche.

Obviously you are going through alot, and sounds like she's the drama type. I wouldn't stress about her. Leave her be, if she tries to talk again make your 'guidelines' very clear. You and your son are #1 on the list. A g/f comes after.

And just to let you know, there is light at the end of the tunnel. lol There may not be many good girls out there, but when you find 'her', you'll know. Although I am taken, I believe I am one of those 'good girls', so I know I'm not the only one out there!

 

Sounds like we're dating the same girl.

I'm a very romantic guy, and I don't think I've ever gone for more than a month without finding someone that I end up dating. But everytime I think it's going to be different they always have something ******* stupid that they do.

The girl I'm "seeing" right now (not dating even though she has spent 75% of the past two weeks at my house) is a girl I met through work. Beautiful blonde, small and petite, absolutely beautiful and super down to earth. But it's the same as you, all texting, all the time. And when we do have personal confrontation she's coy. I have to be the one to initiate everything and to make every decision. But yet she complains when I pick something she doesn't like, or she gets mad at me for annoying her when I don't text back within 5 seconds.

I think every girl on earth is becoming something out of an MTV show. They're drama obsessed, hypocritical, and most of all completely retarded in most of the things they do. It's all one big game to them, when I'm looking for a relationship.



I say, you tell her exactly what Lazerred said. That you're an honest stand-up guy, that you don't want your divorce to be more complicated than it already is by pissing off your wife. Tell her that you don't appreciate the games she's trying to play, and that you're looking for a serious relationship. If you like her enough then just try and talk it out with her. If you don't then suck up to her, nail her, and then just have fun with it.

The last thing I'd want in your shoes is for someone to be playing games. You deserve better Jack. Don't let this chick **** you over. Unless she literally ***** you....over, and over, and over lol.

 

WELLLLLLLLL i just got dumped, via TEXT!

Im not really sweating it much, ive had a good day and dont plan to let something like that mess my day up. The last few days ive been so frustrated with her i dont know if she is worth the effort, well she made my decision for me.

and Rebel, yeah, dont worry there. lol. I had about a 15 month dry spell from when the wife quit putting out, dealing with the divorce, then met this girl and i destroyed the dryspell like a maniac. lol.

I really need to up my standards, nobody under 27, must have a Diploma NOT a GED, must have already figured out her career and be financially independant.

this was a fun little diversion, but i had little faith it was gonna work in the long run.

 

Wow this thread got started and finished quick. Sucks about the breakup, sucks she didnt have the ***** to do it in person or atleast on the phone, but its whatever. As long as you didnt truely expect it to last and had a good time, what else counts? And yeah bieng probly the youngest member here, im not going to say much but im extremely happy with my relationship right now, but also probably dont have near as much experience as you guys, so go at it.