well she texted me and ill let you guys pick at it...

"Hey Mike I got your message. I've been going through some **** the past few days, its a really long story but im in no place to date anyone right now. Im sorry.. I had a great time dancing with you.."

I havent responded back and I dont think I will and should.. what you guys think typical... "im not ready"/ "I dont want a boyfriend responce.."

 

I think it is a pretty clear indication she is not interested.

dont take it personally. she just might actually have a lot of **** going on.


as for waiting, thats a bunch of BS. normally when i was single and i got a girls number i would call her the next day sometime in the afternoon when convenient and keep it short and sweet"Hey i had a great time last night, i dont have time to talk rightt now but i would love to go out and get to know you a little better, how about i call you thursday and we set something up for friday?"

bam.

 

sucks man, but it happens. at least she is up front about it. you can text her back and be like "yeah, thats cool. we can be friends at least."


or


you can just go "date??? sweetheart, i just wanted to PIITB"

 

-1, just leave it as it is and move on.
'Nuff said

 

Ya i dont get girls.. I was 100% sure she was interested... like who says "i thought you would never ask" when I asked her for her number and **** like that.. girls r the biggest tease

 

ya im not goin to say **** usually i like to get the last word in but w/e it is what it is

 

First and foremost never try to understand women...you'll only get a headache!! Follow you guts and you'll usually do ok.

Jack is the man!!! If you call a girl the next day, depending on what you say, we usually think you are very interested which will in turn peak our interest.

If you wait much longer, we begin to think you aren't that interested and start coming up with reasons why you weren't worth our time. So by the time you get around to calling, not only have we found numerous reasons why we shouldn't be interested in you, we have also called all our girlfriends who are backing us up and telling us how you weren't that great to start with.

This situation reaks of a girl that was on the fence over some dude and thought you might be a good replacement. He called first.

 

well, i guess i know to call the next day... I called 2 days after, didnt really know it made a big difference...

 

CALL THE NEXT DAY DONT BE SCARED !!!!!

 

now i know

 

lol owned

 

Damn right i am.

lol...

 

Wondered how long it would take to your radar to pick that up!

 

I'm sorry but calling two days later instead of one isn't the reason this girl suddenly changed her mind. I don't buy the whole "waiting makes you seem less desperate" approach, but it's not like he called her up two weeks later and asked her out.

 

agree, im over it NEXT!!

 

SO i went to the ****** bar whatever with my buddies tonight and ****** I see this same broad... waiting in line so i ****** look at her she looks at me and ****** sd she does the turn around move and pretends like she doesnt see me then she leaves the lines iwth her friends and bounces.... so what u know typical club rat girl **** girls there unreal and dumb it is what it is

 

Don't try to pick up girls at bars. bad news.

 

srlsy... i didn't meet my fiancee in a bar. i met her outside the bar, lol.

 

Next time you go to the bar, put like 6 rolled up socks in your pants to make it look like your set is hanging towards your knees. Maybe she'll talk to you then.