needing advice..
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04-07-2006 | 03:06 PM
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needing advice..
just trying to get a general opinion on this.. i figured some of you guys may have been in a similar situation.
so i dated this guy for a long time about a year and a half ago and it ended on pretty bad terms. we didn't say we hated each other or anything like that, we just broke up for really stupid reasons. Anyways we haven't talked to each other this whole time and he sent me a message the other day apologizing. Why do guys normally apologize out of the blue like that? My guess is for closure maybe? I dunno.. whats your guys' reasons?
so i dated this guy for a long time about a year and a half ago and it ended on pretty bad terms. we didn't say we hated each other or anything like that, we just broke up for really stupid reasons. Anyways we haven't talked to each other this whole time and he sent me a message the other day apologizing. Why do guys normally apologize out of the blue like that? My guess is for closure maybe? I dunno.. whats your guys' reasons?
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04-07-2006 | 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted by jjtgiants
Yeah I think your probably right about it being closure for him..or maybe he realizes he messed up and wants you back???
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04-07-2006 | 03:26 PM
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Originally Posted by csledd
yeah.. i dont understand people, why cant they just say what the want upfront.. makes **** a lot more easier
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#10
04-07-2006 | 04:11 PM
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Could only be two reasons:
1. He wants you back and is trying smooth things over before he makes a move.
2. He has had a real bad experience that has made him reflect on how bad he has treated you and others. Could be a death of someone real close to him or near death of himself or a breakup with another women last but not least he has found the man upstairs.
1. He wants you back and is trying smooth things over before he makes a move.
2. He has had a real bad experience that has made him reflect on how bad he has treated you and others. Could be a death of someone real close to him or near death of himself or a breakup with another women last but not least he has found the man upstairs.
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04-07-2006 | 04:19 PM
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Tell him to buzz off. who cares if all of the sudden he had some sort of an epiphany and realizes what a tard he is. he is still a tard.
besides you already said you have a pic of me, so tell him to go away. <ROFL>
Look, i bet the guy just got out of a relationship, he was totally ticked off with the way it ended, and thought things were way better between the two of you, and feels guilty.
he is probably entertaining ideas of a possibility of rekindling something with you. personally, i think you oughtta just ignore him.
besides you already said you have a pic of me, so tell him to go away. <ROFL>
Look, i bet the guy just got out of a relationship, he was totally ticked off with the way it ended, and thought things were way better between the two of you, and feels guilty.
he is probably entertaining ideas of a possibility of rekindling something with you. personally, i think you oughtta just ignore him.
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04-07-2006 | 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Jack The Ripper
Tell him to buzz off. who cares if all of the sudden he had some sort of an epiphany and realizes what a tard he is. he is still a tard.
besides you already said you have a pic of me, so tell him to go away. <ROFL>
Look, i bet the guy just got out of a relationship, he was totally ticked off with the way it ended, and thought things were way better between the two of you, and feels guilty.
he is probably entertaining ideas of a possibility of rekindling something with you. personally, i think you oughtta just ignore him.
besides you already said you have a pic of me, so tell him to go away. <ROFL>
Look, i bet the guy just got out of a relationship, he was totally ticked off with the way it ended, and thought things were way better between the two of you, and feels guilty.
he is probably entertaining ideas of a possibility of rekindling something with you. personally, i think you oughtta just ignore him.
He might just be trying to get lucky
#18
04-07-2006 | 05:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Badfish
duh....I was refrencing to the stupid bitch that cheated on me rigth before valentines day
#19
04-07-2006 | 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Jack The Ripper
Tell him to buzz off. who cares if all of the sudden he had some sort of an epiphany and realizes what a tard he is. he is still a tard.
besides you already said you have a pic of me, so tell him to go away. <ROFL>
Look, i bet the guy just got out of a relationship, he was totally ticked off with the way it ended, and thought things were way better between the two of you, and feels guilty.
he is probably entertaining ideas of a possibility of rekindling something with you. personally, i think you oughtta just ignore him.
besides you already said you have a pic of me, so tell him to go away. <ROFL>
Look, i bet the guy just got out of a relationship, he was totally ticked off with the way it ended, and thought things were way better between the two of you, and feels guilty.
he is probably entertaining ideas of a possibility of rekindling something with you. personally, i think you oughtta just ignore him.
Slapster's got this one pegged.
#20
04-07-2006 | 05:48 PM
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Originally Posted by FritoBandito
Slapster's got this one pegged.
Ive been "that guy" the "Other guy" the "Good guy" the "Bad guy" and the "A$$hole" Ive been all of them.
ive been in every yard on the block. ive done that. ive done the drunking depressed text message at 3am to the ex. LOL. not my most shining moment, but at least im honest. i bet alot of other dudes have done that too.
Wake up in the morning "ahhh crap what the hell? did i really send that? i gotta lay off the juice"
LMAO
#24
04-07-2006 | 09:29 PM
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Christie:
$10 says he just broke it off with a girl friend and might be having some regrets about you. Does this mean you blow him off? I would generally say "absolutely". If he is really interested, he will try harder. If he is worth while, then play it out. Otherwise, send him packing.
$10 says he just broke it off with a girl friend and might be having some regrets about you. Does this mean you blow him off? I would generally say "absolutely". If he is really interested, he will try harder. If he is worth while, then play it out. Otherwise, send him packing.
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