Another girl thread. awesome. (help me, lol)

Badfish · 08-17-2006, 06:21 PM

ok...here's the sicheeation. i broke up with a girl who like ALOT (i even told her i loved her, i kinda do, but i also wanted to get laid

) she moved to denver, a 45 min to an hour drive away from me. (her stepmom kicked her out, while her dad is fighting for us in iraq, its bull****) anyway, i was pretty chill about it...but she's been calling me alot latley, and im starting to realize i miss her

alot...

so what do i do? i dont want to be like stang00 and buy a civic to drive to my girlfreind. she wants to be with me again..but thats a long ass drive..by the way, this bitch is smokin, if she wasnt, i wouldnt even be comptemplating driving to denver to see her.

should i invite her to live with me lol? i dont know if im ready to live with a chick...those of you who live with their girlfreinds (not wives) whats it like?

*madmatt* · 08-17-2006, 06:23 PM

Hmm. If anything, make the living with you thing VERY temporary. Im sure your mom would just be thrilled about that too...Dunno man, tough call.

Badfish · 08-17-2006, 06:27 PM

eh i dont think my mom will care. if she lived with me, and i started to hate it...how would i kick a girl like that out without her gettign pisserd at me? that would be tough

MattJ · 08-17-2006, 06:31 PM

picsorban
nonudesnocare

*madmatt* · 08-17-2006, 06:37 PM

Go for it, and we definately at least need one pic.

08-17-2006, 06:38 PM

Find another one. There are tons of women out there, DONT let her move in. that would be THE WORST idea possible.

I dont want you to take any offence to this, but you and her are both young and not ready for that situation. Your interest may stray, and so may hers.

What i say is forget about her and find another one. You are not going to marry this girl, and you do NOT need her to constantly be all up in your ****, and you bet yer ass, if she moves in she will constantly be in your business.

You are young and you need to be out meeting girls and stuff. Not going on a charity case. Ive lived with girlfriends in the past and you really need to spend some time living on your own before you think of doing something like this.

like i said, there are tons of girls out there, right now im dating 3 and might be dating a 4th. About to get rid of 2 though, and if the new one doesent really impress me im going with the 3rd.

So thats my advice. It sucks for her, and it sucks for you, but there is almost a ZERO percent chance this girl will be the one you spend your life with. So why rack up the gas miles, why invite her into your home life where she WILL cause drama?

Life aint fair, too bad for her, it sucks, but it is not your responsibility, you need to experience more of life before you do something like that.

Tell her you had fun, good luck, and then go find a girl who lives in the springs and save yourself a ton of bull**** and gas.

JM

Badfish · 08-17-2006, 06:39 PM

i dont have any...100% not kidding...never took pics, she doesnt have a myspace either (she says its gay, rofl) im trying to convince her to make one..so maybe soon

PColav6 · 08-17-2006, 06:40 PM

The fact that you said "the bitch is smokin" makes it highly unlikely that you will last in a relationship with her anyway.

that's life.

Badfish · 08-17-2006, 06:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jack The Ripper

Find another one. There are tons of women out there, DONT let her move in. that would be THE WORST idea possible.

I dont want you to take any offence to this, but you and her are both young and not ready for that situation. Your interest may stray, and so may hers.

What i say is forget about her and find another one. You are not going to marry this girl, and you do NOT need her to constantly be all up in your ****, and you bet yer ass, if she moves in she will constantly be in your business.

You are young and you need to be out meeting girls and stuff. Not going on a charity case. Ive lived with girlfriends in the past and you really need to spend some time living on your own before you think of doing something like this.

like i said, there are tons of girls out there, right now im dating 3 and might be dating a 4th. About to get rid of 2 though, and if the new one doesent really impress me im going with the 3rd.

So thats my advice. It sucks for her, and it sucks for you, but there is almost a ZERO percent chance this girl will be the one you spend your life with. So why rack up the gas miles, why invite her into your home life where she WILL cause drama?

Life aint fair, too bad for her, it sucks, but it is not your responsibility, you need to experience more of life before you do something like that.

Tell her you had fun, good luck, and then go find a girl who lives in the springs and save yourself a ton of bull**** and gas.

JM

thanks for the advice, ill take it into consideration. btw she lives in aurora. i sent her this when i found out:

cus it probably will happen. its alittle "darker" on that side of denver ROFL.

Badfish · 08-17-2006, 06:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PColav6

The fact that you said "the bitch is smokin" makes it highly unlikely that you will last in a relationship with her anyway.

that's life.

she;s not as hot as the girlfreind i had way back, the blonde one....but she's hot, plus i like her for her ALOT. so personality + looks, its a great combo. thats why i like her so much. plus she tokes, and sex stoned is incredible

08-17-2006, 06:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Badfish

thanks for the advice, ill take it into consideration. btw she lives in aurora. i sent her this when i found out:

cus it probably will happen. its alittle "darker" on that side of denver ROFL.

Man thats some funny ****. I lived in aurora for about a year. I hated it. Unfriendly town. You got the rich and the poor marbled through eachother. And both groups dislikes the other ones so there is a lot of tension out there.

i hated it. i will never move back to aurora. L-Town is where it's at!!!!

seriously though, every single person on the board who is my age or older is going to agree with me on this one, and there is a reason for that. ive found in the 12 years ive been dating that sometimes things that look like a good idea blow the **** up right in yer face, you dont need that.

Ghostalker · 08-17-2006, 06:52 PM

I live with my g/f... we wont anymore now that we are going to college, but I will be seeing her alot. She hasent slept in her real home since... may (so not too long). The only thing is we argue often, but its always about stupid **** etc. hey, we are young man... and she's pretty bangin'... speaking of banging stoned... just be sure you use a condom, even is she is on the pill...

stang00 · 08-17-2006, 06:55 PM

john with girls who would have thought

Do not let her move in remember the bitch in nj i was in love with i was thinking bout goin down there to school and stuff to be closer with her. Not worth it people at our age change there feelings to often dont risk messing up your life over a girl like i did by selling my mustang which was coming along rele nicely

put that money ued waste on gas toward ur bumper fund cause ur sure to break another one with colorado roads

stang00 · 08-17-2006, 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ghostalker

I live with my g/f... we wont anymore now that we are going to college, but I will be seeing her alot. She hasent slept in her real home since... may (so not too long). The only thing is we argue often, but its always about stupid **** etc. hey, we are young man... and she's pretty bangin'... speaking of banging stoned... just be sure you use a condom, even is she is on the pill...

this coming from someone who still hasn't learned there lesson

hey wut there giving away free subway coupons at planned parent hood

08-17-2006, 06:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stang00

put that money ued waste on gas toward ur bumper fund cause ur sure to break another one with colorado roads

Snap! Lol

08-17-2006, 07:05 PM

stang00 turning yet another thread into smack talk.

stang00 · 08-17-2006, 07:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by zigzagg321

stang00 turning yet another thread into smack talk.

hey i gave him no smack i gave him advise on how to not make the mistake i did and ive been talking to this kid from colorada also and he kill his front lip all the time on those roads

prob one of my more not retarded post

*madmatt* · 08-17-2006, 07:18 PM

Ok, Im going to stop this arguement before it starts. No more. Back to Jons girl problem. Anything beyond this point other than on topic WILL be deleted.

stang00 · 08-17-2006, 07:20 PM

hey john y did her step madre throw her out anyway wut she do that was so wrong to get the boot

Slither · 08-17-2006, 07:22 PM

I was with a girl several years ago that got kicked out and had nowhere to go. I was living with my parents at the time and said she could stay there. Well it was supposed to be temp. but she felt like she would stay there for as long as she could and mooch off food and not pay for a damn thing. It's harder to get them out than to get them in man.

45 min to an hour is not that far to try and make love work. DO NOT move her in with you, especially since you still live at home. It will eventually cause family problems..trust me.

Let her move and see how things go. If it works 45 min away then consider moving out and the both of you get a place. Moving in with your parents is not a true test of real love and if it will work. Let her stay there on weekends or something so you can see how it is having her under your roof and sharing your things. I am not assuming but there is a good chance since you are young (don't take offense) that you will get tired of her real fast especially when you want your space. Remember when you want to go out without her, you aren't leaving her at her house..you are leaving her at your parents house. Use your best judgement on this one buddy and I hope you do the right thing. I hope everything works out man. Keep us posted.

Badfish · 08-17-2006, 07:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stang00

hey i gave him no smack i gave him advise on how to not make the mistake i did and ive been talking to this kid from colorada also and he kill his front lip all the time on those roads

prob one of my more not retarded post

sorry madmatt, but it is my thread

SEE! jesus you people dont beleive me how ****ty colorado roads are...

anyways..what should i do about this chick?

stang00 · 08-17-2006, 07:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Badfish

sorry madmatt, but it is my thread

SEE! jesus you people dont beleive me how ****ty colorado roads are...

anyways..what should i do about this chick?

Is her calling you all the time bringing up old feelings, that u once had for her or r u thinking that if she moves in maybe u can get laid on a reg basis sorta thing??

Badfish · 08-17-2006, 07:32 PM

both, lol. im not gonna lie she ****s soo good..

but i do love her..i think...i dont know...when we broke up i was kinda apethtic about it...but as time goes by, and the more i talk to her the more i miss her.. its like when i left my stang for hawaii. i was chill with it, but by the 7th day, i NEEDED to drive my car, lol

08-17-2006, 06:21 PM	#1 (permalink)
Badfish Listen to reggae. Join Date: May 2005 Location: Colorado Springs, CO Posts: 8,779	Another girl thread. awesome. (help me, lol) ok...here's the sicheeation. i broke up with a girl who like ALOT (i even told her i loved her, i kinda do, but i also wanted to get laid ) she moved to denver, a 45 min to an hour drive away from me. (her stepmom kicked her out, while her dad is fighting for us in iraq, its bull****) anyway, i was pretty chill about it...but she's been calling me alot latley, and im starting to realize i miss her alot... so what do i do? i dont want to be like stang00 and buy a civic to drive to my girlfreind. she wants to be with me again..but thats a long ass drive..by the way, this bitch is smokin, if she wasnt, i wouldnt even be comptemplating driving to denver to see her. should i invite her to live with me lol? i dont know if im ready to live with a chick...those of you who live with their girlfreinds (not wives) whats it like? __________________ '04 2.3l Evo '86 GSXR 750

08-17-2006, 06:23 PM	#2 (permalink)
madmatt Traitor...lol Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Lexington, SC Posts: 7,912	Hmm. If anything, make the living with you thing VERY temporary. Im sure your mom would just be thrilled about that too...Dunno man, tough call. __________________ RPMPlanets

08-17-2006, 06:27 PM	#3 (permalink)
Badfish Listen to reggae. Join Date: May 2005 Location: Colorado Springs, CO Posts: 8,779	eh i dont think my mom will care. if she lived with me, and i started to hate it...how would i kick a girl like that out without her gettign pisserd at me? that would be tough __________________ '04 2.3l Evo '86 GSXR 750

08-17-2006, 06:31 PM	#4 (permalink)
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08-17-2006, 06:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
madmatt Traitor...lol Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Lexington, SC Posts: 7,912	Go for it, and we definately at least need one pic. __________________ RPMPlanets

08-17-2006, 06:38 PM	#6 (permalink)
Jack The Ripper Posts: n/a	Find another one. There are tons of women out there, DONT let her move in. that would be THE WORST idea possible. I dont want you to take any offence to this, but you and her are both young and not ready for that situation. Your interest may stray, and so may hers. What i say is forget about her and find another one. You are not going to marry this girl, and you do NOT need her to constantly be all up in your **, and you bet yer ass, if she moves in she will constantly be in your business. You are young and you need to be out meeting girls and stuff. Not going on a charity case. Ive lived with girlfriends in the past and you really need to spend some time living on your own before you think of doing something like this. like i said, there are tons of girls out there, right now im dating 3 and might be dating a 4th. About to get rid of 2 though, and if the new one doesent really impress me im going with the 3rd. So thats my advice. It sucks for her, and it sucks for you, but there is almost a ZERO percent chance this girl will be the one you spend your life with. So why rack up the gas miles, why invite her into your home life where she WILL cause drama? Life aint fair, too bad for her, it sucks, but it is not your responsibility, you need to experience more of life before you do something like that. Tell her you had fun, good luck, and then go find a girl who lives in the springs and save yourself a ton of bull** and gas. JM

08-17-2006, 06:39 PM	#7 (permalink)
Badfish Listen to reggae. Join Date: May 2005 Location: Colorado Springs, CO Posts: 8,779	i dont have any...100% not kidding...never took pics, she doesnt have a myspace either (she says its gay, rofl) im trying to convince her to make one..so maybe soon __________________ '04 2.3l Evo '86 GSXR 750

08-17-2006, 06:40 PM	#8 (permalink)
PColav6 Moo Join Date: May 2006 Location: Pensacola, Florida Posts: 3,976	The fact that you said "the bitch is smokin" makes it highly unlikely that you will last in a relationship with her anyway. that's life. __________________

08-17-2006, 06:52 PM	#12 (permalink)
Ghostalker BOLO 4 ME Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Danbury, CT Posts: 2,274	I live with my g/f... we wont anymore now that we are going to college, but I will be seeing her alot. She hasent slept in her real home since... may (so not too long). The only thing is we argue often, but its always about stupid **** etc. hey, we are young man... and she's pretty bangin'... speaking of banging stoned... just be sure you use a condom, even is she is on the pill... __________________ Ghosty is in need of some mods...

08-17-2006, 06:55 PM	#13 (permalink)
stang00 Civic Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: brewster ny Posts: 2,577	john with girls who would have thought Do not let her move in remember the bitch in nj i was in love with i was thinking bout goin down there to school and stuff to be closer with her. Not worth it people at our age change there feelings to often dont risk messing up your life over a girl like i did by selling my mustang which was coming along rele nicely put that money ued waste on gas toward ur bumper fund cause ur sure to break another one with colorado roads __________________ 2007 civic si galaxy grey 213 WHP 176wtrq SKunk 2 70mm catback buddy club race header injen CAI hondata tb spacer kenwood 7in dvd navi head unit 2, 12in JL audio W3's JL 500\1 amp 18in bronze 5zigen pro racers (wrapped in bfg goodrich KDW2 225\40\18) Brembo dilled rotors ebc green stuff pads Hfp suspension hfp lip kit hfp fogs 5% tint red interior underglow

08-17-2006, 07:05 PM	#16 (permalink)
zigzaggthefag321 Posts: n/a	stang00 turning yet another thread into smack talk.

08-17-2006, 07:18 PM	#18 (permalink)
madmatt Traitor...lol Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Lexington, SC Posts: 7,912	Ok, Im going to stop this arguement before it starts. No more. Back to Jons girl problem. Anything beyond this point other than on topic WILL be deleted. __________________ RPMPlanets

08-17-2006, 07:20 PM	#19 (permalink)
stang00 Civic Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: brewster ny Posts: 2,577	hey john y did her step madre throw her out anyway wut she do that was so wrong to get the boot __________________ 2007 civic si galaxy grey 213 WHP 176wtrq SKunk 2 70mm catback buddy club race header injen CAI hondata tb spacer kenwood 7in dvd navi head unit 2, 12in JL audio W3's JL 500\1 amp 18in bronze 5zigen pro racers (wrapped in bfg goodrich KDW2 225\40\18) Brembo dilled rotors ebc green stuff pads Hfp suspension hfp lip kit hfp fogs 5% tint red interior underglow

08-17-2006, 07:22 PM	#20 (permalink)
Slither Elmo Rocks my Socks Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 2,145	I was with a girl several years ago that got kicked out and had nowhere to go. I was living with my parents at the time and said she could stay there. Well it was supposed to be temp. but she felt like she would stay there for as long as she could and mooch off food and not pay for a damn thing. It's harder to get them out than to get them in man. 45 min to an hour is not that far to try and make love work. DO NOT move her in with you, especially since you still live at home. It will eventually cause family problems..trust me. Let her move and see how things go. If it works 45 min away then consider moving out and the both of you get a place. Moving in with your parents is not a true test of real love and if it will work. Let her stay there on weekends or something so you can see how it is having her under your roof and sharing your things. I am not assuming but there is a good chance since you are young (don't take offense) that you will get tired of her real fast especially when you want your space. Remember when you want to go out without her, you aren't leaving her at her house..you are leaving her at your parents house. Use your best judgement on this one buddy and I hope you do the right thing. I hope everything works out man. Keep us posted. __________________ SilverMustangs.com Website & Registry

08-17-2006, 07:32 PM	#23 (permalink)
Badfish Listen to reggae. Join Date: May 2005 Location: Colorado Springs, CO Posts: 8,779	both, lol. im not gonna lie she ****s soo good.. but i do love her..i think...i dont know...when we broke up i was kinda apethtic about it...but as time goes by, and the more i talk to her the more i miss her.. its like when i left my stang for hawaii. i was chill with it, but by the 7th day, i NEEDED to drive my car, lol __________________ '04 2.3l Evo '86 GSXR 750