i officially dont appriciate my girlfriends mom anymore....she i just so self centered its not cool.....i was supposed to take my girlfriend out to breakfast/lunch, before each of us go to work @ 1, and her mom wanted to go to church...they usually go to 11 oclock mass(i dont got to church)...but instead her mom doesnt feel like getting up for that so she is going to go a differnent church (same religion) at a 12 oclock mass....my girlfriend mentioned that we will be going out so can they go to church earlier and her mom replies that she isnt going to change her schedual to cater to us...which in my mind is unreasonable....and also her mom says that she doesnt get to see my girlfriend at all anymore cause she is out w/ me ALL the time so she says....but her mom is home at 4 in the after noon....and i have swimming practice until at least 5...so my girlfriend and her mom are home all after noon....and i also work saturdays (my girlfriend doesnt work saturdays)...there a good 7-8 hours to spend time w/ each other....my girlfriend is pissed @ her mom...im pissed @ her mom....her mom is pissed @ me....now the mom is going to call my mom to tell my mom whats going on between us....that also pisses me off cause she thinks that we cant deal w/ this like adults.....its bs....her mom is a child....i have a feeling that her mom is trying to sabatage our relationship....and i cant live w/o my girlfriend....she is my everything....love for my car doenst even come close to my love for her....im now waiting to see what her mom has to say....

srry this is so long its just so frustrating

 

yea...i have considered that but that would make things worse for me and my girlfriend.....o and i also forgot to mention that her mom thinks that our relationship is only kid love..like going out w/ a girl when ur in like middle shcool....were both jouniors....pfft....

 

LoL hehe, suxs, but oh well you'll get to see her again soon right? whats the big deal? Whoo Sah man, u might as well get used to that kinda stuff until you both are in college and can make your own decisions...

 

just get a kenne bell 2.2


and everything will be juuuuuuuuuuust fine

 

i asked to have her over for dinner....id make it and all...and not a crappy leftover dinners.....but her mom said that we cant do anything until i prove i treat my girlfriend well....i have spent more than anyone should (not just money)...but w/e...and i do make my own decisions......she is too "immature" according to her mom...her mom doesnt even want her in my room....cause there is "temptation" to have sex....jesus...i've been raised to not have sex until a certian time...and that time isnt now.....w/e i am just really frustrated w/ her mom


and danny....YES YES YES

 

kill her dude. ha ha ha

 

but is she a milf, thats the questioned that must be answered.

 

his car wont be running with a KB 2.2 unless he has a 98432742398" pulley.

 

video tape u two doin it and send it to her mom for a mothers day gift....

 

Dude who are you going out with her mom or your girlfriend...think about that....seriously I dont put up with crap from my g/f's mom just for the fact that she cant do squat...she doesnt like it she can go sit and rotate...by the way is she a milf?

 

-_- this all sounds like some middle school stuff that your letting going on bro... put your foot down and tell your girl whats up... tell her to stop being a 10 year old if she loves you... if that doesnt work sit down with your girlfriends mom and have a 1 on 1 conversation and if the conversation leads to no where just tell the mom "look bitch!, i dont give a **** what you say! because me and "Jodie" are getting married and i got her pregnant on your bed last night!"


i am telling you bro... that last line always works! HOOK LINE SINKER!

 

no she isnt even close to a milf....and its pretty much settled.....tides have calmed and everything is ok.....

 

lmao thats terrible guyz...

here man just accept her mom as authority, nothin is guna change...wait till college/ post high school...relationships are much more fulfilling then

 

yup...but its squared away as much as it can be right now...im im happy.....

 

Juniors in high school?

You are a kid. Respect the mother and her wishes.

 

well I don't know what happened to get it squared away, but just a warning to you, if it happened once, it will happen again. I have been in your exact shoes, and trust me, it has been uglier, uglier than what you have said about your situation. the question has to be how serious you two are. I don't buy into the whole crap that someone else posted saying to just accept the mom as authority and respect her wishes. that is complete bs and I have made that clear to everyone that has used that one on me. it is a fact of life that children grow up and no longer want to spend every waking minute with their parents. if her mom can't handle that, then you or your gf need to tell her to go f herself. if you are juniors in high school, I am assuming you are about 17. at 18, everyone is legally an adult. I say that by that time, you are capable of making decisions on your own. you aren't a little kid. if your gf didn't want to go to church, should have not gone. if you are the ones that scheduled to go to lunch/breakfast, then you are the ones altering your schedule to accomodate her mom.

seeing as how you are only juniors, and it sounds like you two aren't THAT serious right now, I would definately proceed with caution. Everytime in my situation that it seemed to get better, it would only take a few days and it would be right back in the same place, and eventually got worse. it ultimately led to my gf getting kicked out of her house, her car taken away, school not being paid for, no support at all, forcing her to drop out of college and go to work just to pay rent and afford a car. Her parents were nice enough to buy her a ishtty car and set her up with a ishtty apartment out of the goodness of there heart (<sarcasm) All because she changed her mind about where she wanted to go to school and it wasn't where they wanted her to go. they accused me of being abusive (which I have never laid a hand on her like some of her other boyfriends, but because they were hunting buddies of her dad's, it must have been ok. I was the best thing since sliced bread to that family until the college switch...go figure) and brainwashing her, and when she wouldn't break up with me, they kicked her out. I have had me life threatened on several occasions. And now she is totally estranged from her parents, not having communicated with them in about 2 years, except through the court system (another story for a different day).

just giving you my advice to watch the situation very carefully and be very cautious if you don't think this girl is someone you want to spend your life with and is just some high school thing. it may not be worth it to stress over it. in my case it was. we met our senior year in high school, having grown up together in the same town and even the same church when we were little and never actually knowing each other. we have been together for 3 years now, and as stated earlier are engaged. I have approx 1 more year before I graduate college and we will consider actually getting married then, just trying to wait for me to finish.

 

the main intent is for PureStang to read it anyway, so if you don't want to read it, dont. just a guy who has been in his shoes and just my friendly advice.