so i was drinking with a bunch of my buddies and my ex was there. drinks started to get a hold of us and my ex and i hit it off. started making out and all. next thing i know, my buzz is killed and im completely sober. I pull away and i said im sorry and left the room. what makes it worse is that its my house and she is sleeping in the room next to me.

is it supposed to be weird? this girl and i had a 2 year relationship and she ended it. so should i just keep on moving on? im soo fucked!

 

keep her on file for a booty call when needed. You get yours...she gets hers...everybody wins and nobody gets hurt. That's if she's down for that.....if not keep moving on. why take a risk with a relationship that didn't make it the first time

 

i wont be surprised if she leave before i get up in the morning.

 

toss it up as a drunken hook up man. i don't know u and ur girls history, but the relationship didn't work for a reason, and just cuz she was a little tipsy and wanted to make out with someone without the whole "hooking up with a guy i barely know" thing, don't read too much into it.


if anything, just let her make the first move.

 

a second break up sex?

 

Yeah, Def keep her for the hook-ups.... She'll probably be down for that... What does it hurt to try, right???

 

well..she wasnt gone when i woke up today, i actually found her in my bed with me. clothes on but i was so passed out i didnt notice. she seemed fine, a lil emotional cause that just the way she is....def. a hook up...no relationship. not going through that again.

 

Smart Man, KEEP MOVING ON !!!!
Gettin your nuts ripped out twice by the same one, "Not Good"
Good Luck !! thats a tough one

 

That's the whole idea right?!?!? lol. well at least for me it is....

 

Dude, I've heard of letting the little head think for the big head before, but it seems you let the big head think for the little head.. Why did you loose your buzz? You probably shoulda gave her what she obviously wanted, then deal with the feelings later. I woulda listened to the little devil on my right shoulder instead of the angel on my left. ( remember animal house).. LOL

 

^i'm with this guy. shoot now and ask questions later lol.

 

+ 1

 

well, the big head thought first cause she is a very conservative female. since its been almost 2 years since we've been dating, i know for a fact that she wouldnt let me anywhere near "her", if you know what i mean.

o and in the morning, she started to get all emotional and saying that her ex hurt her baddly (dumping her like 3 weeks ago) and i figured that she is confused and ****. **** it.

now i wanna go and drink again, and invite more girls over.

a lil off topic but, fishing drunk is great. was at a friends party the last night and we we're fishing on his property. one kid hooked a 15lb bass (known smallest fish they have) , but he was so plastered that the fish pulled him in.

 

Man, 15lb bass, smallest fish in that lake? What other species does he have there, Sturgiens ? And if I ever hooked a 15 lb bass drunk or other wise, that bass would be on my wall. I can see loosing a big bass like that to improper hook set, but to get pulled in by him, Not gonna happen to me. Unless I was diving after him while he tries to wrap my line around something..

Back on topic now. You should try to hook up with her again, and play the sympathy card..