so...ever since i got to college, iv have been talking to this girl on and off. when we talk its like we have known each other since elementary school. she is a big partier but i am a modest partier....its not really worth partying here at my campus cause the police know every single party that goes on (small town, 2nd or 3rd biggest PSU campus). i know that she get hammered and all that jazz but she doesnt seem to be the girl to nail every guy that she meets drunk. i have partied with her most of the times i've gone out and she seems like she just wants to have fun and chill with friends....so here is my problem

today i was going to see if she wanted to go out for a bite to eat just to see if she had any interest...but i was walking back from class with a friend and he started to tell me that almost every party that she goes to, she has sex with this guy, or that guy...now i find this hard to believe cause she doesnt come off as that type of person....but she also gets to the point of not remembering what happened the previous night...

i dont know what to believe, my friend or the girls personality...i really do like this girl but if what he said is true...then i may just be better off not even trying....

should i just leave things the way they are, not asking her and continue just a friendly relationship or should i ask her and possibly ruin a friendship....and make things awkward in the dorm cause she lives in the suit across from me...


p.s. sorry for the long post.

 

Don't get involved with girls who party that hard. That is my advice, hang out with her. Have sex with her a few times if you are into that. But never turn it into a relationship. You may think she only wants to chill when you are with her, but that is because you are with her.

 

im 34 yrs old i been through this dont ever let a girl come in between you an a friend. As for the party girl you cant make her a house wife trust me just have fun with her for now and use protection what ever you do dont catch feelings for her she will only hurt you. If homeboy is a true friend he prolly tellin the truth.If he aint that tight with you he just wants to bang her.

 

Strap up and hit it. Don't date this girl, you won't be able to trust her. "You can't turn a hoe into a house wife, hoes don't act right" -haha sorry.

 

^^ haha...yea..im tight with him and he is bangin his ex anyways..lol....

ive been thinkin and i think i will be doing just as you guys say....hmm...what to do tonight.......

 

wear a raincoat

 

wtf yea lose this bitch you dont want a buddy's ex n e way im sure he got rid of her for the same reason

 

did i read right? its your buddies ex???? cardinal guy sin...ultimate act of evil...its a man law...YOU DO NOT SCREW A FRIENDS EX...not ever...never ever ever....not knowingly...NEVER...think about it...at best it means your too damn lazy to go find a girl yourself...like dippin in your neighbors pool cause your too lazy to go to the beach....at worst you'd be a backstabbin sob that was always schemin on his buddies girl...either way..you earn a sprained jaw...i hope i read it wrong

 

What if it was your former best friend. Cuz i did that. lol.

 

no no no..i was refering that by buddy was banging his ex..not the girl im talking about.. lol

hell..if it was my buddies ex i wouldnt even consider it......

p.s. i rephrased that sentance

 

Just because a girl doesn't act like a hoe durring the day, doesn't mean she ain't one when she's drunk. Personality doesn't mean crap. Strap up son!

 

lol ur in college dude. hit it.

for the record. me and my buddies all got the same thing...." dude i left her for a reason.....u wanna hit it?....ill hook u up:P"

we dont give a ****. i duno y but a few of them say once im done with them, they dont want them......asses :P

 

Dude **** them you cant trust a drunk bitch.

 

In the words of Tim Allen. When you build a car you don't just take it out and drive it when you are finished..... no no no, bad example.... if you take your car out of the garage you gotta think........ car cover!

 

bingo. the nail head has been hit. hard.

 

been there done that, do yourself a favor hit that **** once (if you dont hit it you will regret it later in life) then move on. your in college enjoy the ride.

 

Lol... dude, seriously, are you on another ******* planet?

how the hell do you catch the bad guys? Not exactly the most observant person on the boards are ya?

I mean, ****, dude, yer usually so far off target that i doubt you could shoot and hit the ground!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA



ANYWAYS ...

I digress... i think... what the hell is it to digress? it ssounds good though, im off topic, ok, yes, i digress.

Sounds like she has something in common with this!

 

huh?

 

i was following the post in front of mine....interestin how you missed that....sometimes i think jack has a streetracer fixation

 

Two Words:

Butt Secks!!

 

Keep her as a friend, or bang her and leave her. your choice, just don't get involved.

 

Friends with benifits if you can swing it if she is hot there is nothing wrong with keeping her as a booty call

 

.....oh wow

 

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I totally agree....what pigs

 

me too...i think they are piggy pig pigs

 

hmmm...i forgot about this thread...

fyi, i didnt do anything with her and it was better that i didnt.....and my buddy was right that she slept with a lot of kids....she has HPV according to her roommate

 

oooohhhhh......The gift that keeps on giving!

What are your thoughts on the subject?

 

Time to move on my friend!!!!

 

lol girls that party hard = trouble

 

OMG I cannot believe guys who know so much about mustangs, know so little about women!!!DAMN Get out of the stone ******* age!!! How many have each of you hit. Are you still worth being a husband or a father? DUH!! I love how you guys can go out and knock the bottom out of anything that moves and it's OK, but let a woman take care of her needs (and we do have them) and she's not worthy of you. HOLY ****!!! You all want the virgin ****....never been with anyone but knows how to rock your world. As far as not reforming the party girl, been there, I was THE party girl, spent a tour in Germany, only female in my platoon and could out drink most of the dudes. I have been married for 16 years, have two children, a house, 4 cars and am about to embark on my 3rd career. Partying in your youth does not define who you are.

Dude if you like her hang with her and see where it goes. If your that appalled by her then stay the hell away from her and go to the convent an try to find a nice girl.

If you do decide to stick with her....do put a helmet on that soldier.!! and HPV is treatable.

AGAIN....DAMN!!!!!