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Old 11-12-2006, 10:50 AM
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Alrighty.

I've been seeing 2 girls and jugging them both for a lil over a month now. I want to make a decision before they find out about each other, and all hell breaks loose.
One girl is like the girl your family will love. She has a great smile, is fun to talk to, carries a good conversation, always has a good time,and is really cute and I like her allot. Shes not a big partier or anything which is ok with me.

The other girl is hott as hell. She loves having sex non stop and partying. She also likes those nights when its just me and her. We'll go out to dinner and go watch a movie at one of our houses, which I really like allot. She can party and have fun but can be serious and go out on a real date every now and then too.

They are two completly different girls and I dont know what to do. I like them both for different reasons. I dont know, im 18 if I want a family girl or a girl who loves sex and partying and can be a family girl if needed right now.


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Old 11-12-2006, 10:54 AM
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I honestly dont believe you can't decide which one you should pick. Which one can you see yourself with forever, **** what we or your mom thinks? And being hot and full of the sexing is not nearly everything. You need someone you wont get sick of, ever.
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 11:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Ghostalker
I honestly dont believe you can't decide which one you should pick. Which one can you see yourself with forever, **** what we or your mom thinks? And being hot and full of the sexing is not nearly everything. You need someone you wont get sick of, ever.
+1.. your the one thats going to have to deal with her and since no one on here knows anything about either one of them (other than what you said). Just go with what you think is best.
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted by wnracing
Go for Girl #1.....

"Party" Girls are nothing but trouble.. like you just said she likes to fvck alot, that means she's prob gonna go out anf fvck someone else when she gets bored with you.. She sounds like one of the Ho's that spin would be goin' after..
That's funny right there.

I'm glad I don't have to worry about choosing the right girl, blah blah blah
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 11:25 AM
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My brother married a party girl. She tried to settle down. They had two kids both girls. Seven years later she started going out again and leaving him at home. About a year later she died in a car wreck with her boyfriend he lived . Choose wisely young man.
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted by cameltoe
My brother married a party girl. She tried to settle down. They had two kids both girls. Seven years later she started going out again and leaving him at home. About a year later she died in a car wreck with her boyfriend he lived . Choose wisely young man.
Was she having an affair or did they get divorced when she was with the bf. Either way, that totally sucks in more ways than one.
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 11:44 AM
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An affair
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 12:40 PM
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NoPicsnocare......




but #2
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 12:45 PM
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choose #2 cause u drive a civic so a girl like that most likely wont come around for u eva again lol


and why do u ask a bunch of ppl you dont kno for advice on everything??lol
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 12:49 PM
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tell girl number one you have alot going on right now in your life and then go and stick with girl number two till ya get bored. like my brother said, u drive a civic and this opportunity will never come again. then if she isnt the right one............go with the librarian
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 02:19 PM
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LOL you are joking right? I assume when you say she likes having sex non stop it is with someone other than you right?

Oh man...I needed a good laugh!
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 02:19 PM
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I don't know man..

I dated a good girl for like 2 years, but she would go out to a party with me every now and then.. then again..she was a freak in the bed

But i'm dating a girl now who has done some partying .. not so much anymore but shes good to go to one if i want.. and shes someone that i can take home to meet the parent..

Basically..you have to follow what you want, not what someone else wants.. and you really can't listen to what other people say..

Its your decision man.. not ours, or anyone elses.

*throws the hard decision back*
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 03:00 PM
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Bitche's ain't ****...#2
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 03:08 PM
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like you get girls
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Slither
LOL you are joking right? I assume when you say she likes having sex non stop it is with someone other than you right?

Oh man...I needed a good laugh!

haha ik thats y the thread topic is like wtf y would this happen to me haha

number 2 im more leaning into cause i dont rele want the money pit that a real relationship im sure will leave me with i like buying **** for me and my car

BTW girls love civics haha
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Slither
LOL you are joking right? I assume when you say she likes having sex non stop it is with someone other than you right?

Oh man...I needed a good laugh!
hahahahahaha made me laugh......
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted by stang00

BTW girls love civics haha
no.. they don't lol
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 04:01 PM
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yea no ****. girls like fast cars..LOUD AND FAST.
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 04:14 PM
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Originally Posted by White04GT
yea no ****. girls like fast cars..LOUD AND FAST.
exactly.. even all of my friends who are girls love my car. they even love the cams even though they have no clue what they are
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 04:34 PM
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Girls around here like big trucks..and nice cars.. (wonder if they know the guy with the big truck is trying to compensate for something..) =(

Just playing to whoever has a big truck here. ;x

And Stang00..girls tend to change when they get into the relationship.. so you might end up blowin some cash either way. ;x

And Spin IS kinda right.. many party girls tend to be on the slutty side.. and that sends me a message that she wouldn't mind cheating..

Not saying every girl that parties is that way..because I know for a fact that its not..but.. alot of times they are..
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 05:28 PM
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Have all the sex you can and enjoy yourself while your young. Don't get stuck down on a girl right now or take it too seriously because more than likely you won't be with her very long anyways. Choose the one your gonna have the most fun with RIGHT NOW. In a few years when your life is more settled and your life has a direction, then start looking for the girls to settle down with.
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 05:31 PM
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Originally Posted by SnTBakosFinest
Girls around here like big trucks..and nice cars.. (wonder if they know the guy with the big truck is trying to compensate for something..) =(

Just playing to whoever has a big truck here. ;x

And Stang00..girls tend to change when they get into the relationship.. so you might end up blowin some cash either way. ;x

And Spin IS kinda right.. many party girls tend to be on the slutty side.. and that sends me a message that she wouldn't mind cheating..

Not saying every girl that parties is that way..because I know for a fact that its not..but.. alot of times they are..


what's wrong with party girls?

Just do to them what their gonna do to you.......f#ck em'
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 05:49 PM
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go on a diet
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 05:50 PM
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you need to figure out what you want first. If you want a long term relationship then pick girl #1. I had a girl #2 once and it sucked when it ended. She wasnt looking for a long term relationship like I was and she didn't care about me.
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 06:58 PM
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i'm 25, and can say i've had some (ok, lil more than some) experience with this. when your only 18 u dont really need the girl to take home for ma...when your 25 u need that...lol. however, the sex is nice, and hotness is nice as well, but in the long run the "good girl" is more satisfying...it'll be a more fruitful relationship.

remeber though...to each is own
 
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Old 11-12-2006, 07:19 PM
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Most of the guys I work with are married and all their wives are now way way overweight, and call their husbands at work a hundred times a day.......And some of the guys want to have affairs for having such a boring wife. Your too young to settle down anyway, so have fun and don't worry about the "right girl" right now! The best thing is to find an "older girl" ........
 


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