my question to the group
 

lets say you have a coworker...shes your best bud and you talk for 7 hours straight a day...you get closer..you start the sexual thing....its hot and heavy for months...one night your a bit tipsy and you call her the wrong name in bed...3 times...she throws you out and vows never to speak to you again....friendship ruined...years go by and you never hear from her nor do you call...one day your bud tells you he sees her in a store and shes shootin him dirty looks...they have an argument and he calls her a crazy bitch for holdin a grudge against me for so many years....i'm not mad at him for bein my boy...but i'm still feelin a bit bad cause he berated her in public...she used to be someone i loved....my question....should i call her up after all this time and ask how shes doin...or respect that she told me to stay away from her forever?


honestly its been eatin me up for years cause i never did say sorry...its a pride thing...but should this bad blood last "forever"?

Do what you feel is right -Obi Wan Kenobi

Sounds like a good time to get back into the good with her... Call her up and apologyze to her for what he said, and strike up a convo.. You still like/ love her then it sounds like a golden opportunity to me... :salook:

lmfao people post too much personal stuff on forums

its not all that personal....and its the perfect way i can advice on this and still stay "strong" in front of my pals....i can laugh about it to them and talk about it here...i guess i'm not an introverted hermit that shuns people

well, ask yourself some questions. such as, why do you really want to talk with her again? is it because you only feel bad about what happened, not only the other day with your friend, but what you did so long ago? or is it because you feel a deep seeded attachment to this person and you want to find out where it will take you both. so before even picking up the phone, you have to figure out what you intend to do. In this situation shooting from the hip is not good idea. develop an idea or "game plan" if you will, about what your real intentions are. and most certainly dont lie too yourself. don't think about just banging her for banger her sake, you have already hurt her once and she will be very guarded against you. if you want to be her friend it is possible but will take time.

i do miss her...its been years so its not really the whole bang her again thing..cause my current baby is molten hot...but once upon a time me and sabrina spent a weekend in bed and just talked...i never did that before...just talkin with a girl...thats what i miss so much...her as my friend...and yes...........................did you guys see grease?...remember how tony had to act in front of his boys?...when all he wanted was to just be with the simple girl...that movie always gets me thinkin...and yes...i guess a good part of it is that i never got to say sorry...cause i have a sort of hot head and when i should have just told her i was sorry i told her i could replace her with a trip to the beach and the price of a dinner...funny how years go by and regret doesnt go away...anyway...its good to get it out here cause i would never be able to say any of this even to my brothers...they would smack me in the head so many times...maybe my kid sister...but then she would make me marry the girl

I say call her. Who knows, and whats the worst that can happen, you say sorry and she still doesnt wanna talk?

Call her back and say you're sorry...then PIIHB!!!:cool:..

How about apologize. Just talk to her and see what happens. i doubt things will go back to the way they are, but at least you might have some closure. And remember, call the girl by the right name.

watch out! the spelling nazi is here!

i'm just bustin his balls, but seriously, get edjamucated

I'd give her a call and apologize. If she still doesn't want anything to do with you then at least you got it off your chest....and if she forgives you, maybe you can give her a pearl necklace in order to make up for your wrong doing. ha ha ha

yeah. it's a pet peeve of mine too.

best suggestion ever!

Ha ha sigged!

that. is ****ing hilarious.

Send her a dozen red roses with a dildo nestled in the flowers.
lol....

Forget it dude, this shit happens, if you start calling her she is gonna just give you a ton of shit and start thinking yer a stalker. You already ****ed up beyond repair. I mean, i can understand once, but you forgot her name 3 times? jesus dude. who the hell did you think you were with? lol. i would be suprised if she ever forgave you for that.

move on

it wasnt like i called her three diff names...okay...her name is sabrina... i called her tiffany...tiffany was just a friend of mine that models lingerie in clubs...not a stripper...its actually name brand lingerie in respectable joints...anyway...i was a lil drunk and i was in bed sort of dreamin about tiffany while lyin next to sabrina...sabrina starts foolin around with me and i'm in the middle of the dream about tiffany...so naturally i kiss her and i'm like, "yeah tiffany"....sabrina stops and says ,"what did you say?" i'm still in the dream so i say it again.."yeah tiffany"...now she slaps me and gets up...i get up too and i'm sort of awake but still drunk...i'm tellin her i never touched tiffany and that it was just a dream...shes pissed beyond words so shes walkin to the door and we're arguing back and forth...as she was leaving i was like, "listen tiffany i'm tellin you...oh shit...sorry..." and it went south from there...then i got mad and said alot of things i shouldnt have ... i actually took tiffany on a disneyworld vacation shortly thereafter just to "get back" at sabrina but found that while tiffany was fun in the sack i didnt really like her stuck up, conceited attitude...you know the type..."the waiter was flirting with me"..."that guy was staring at me"..."this guy offered to carry all my bags"...so i left her in florida and drove the stang back to new york at some really nice speeds





anyway...i called her today and no sooner than i said "hi its tommy"...she hung up the phone....oh well

Damn thats gotta hurt, but I can understand where the girl is coming from. YOU FORGOT HER NAME?! thats some pretty messed up stuff to a girl, after all she was the one fooling around with you at the time. Let it die.

I agree lol, come on here for car shit any I always end up reading about break ups and stuff. Why ask ppl you dont know for advice......Heres some good advice......you should of either played it off like you meant to call her a different name just playing around to make her mad.........or just mess around with girls all with the same name.....lol

LOL move on. If shes not decent enough to listen to you talk, she's not worth the time.

Let it go man,nothing good will come of this.

yup, agreed, let it go. you tried to make it right, she hung up the phone. ball's in her court if she wants to call you back. sooo where in FL did you leave this stuck up conceited lingerie model?? hook a brotha up!!