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Old Feb 14, 2006 | 04:38 PM
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Well I just found out that my g/f of 10 months cheated on me...I made reservations for tonite at a very nice resturaunt too....

I don't know what to do with myself.....
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 04:40 PM
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Smash her face in...
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 04:41 PM
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that sucks man but to make you feel better you should take her best friend and get some:banana:
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by StangAddict
that sucks man but to make you feel better you should take her best friend and get some:banana:
Great idea! Nothing pisses a chick off more than when you nail one of her friends or sisters....just make sure you video tape it and send it to the ex....that really get's them fired up.
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 04:47 PM
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Holy **** dude that sucks so bad. I hope mine doesn't ever do that to me i would be extremely depressed i feel for ya man!
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 04:55 PM
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what restraunt??
if u gave me more heads up i could of found one of my friends in the springs that might want to go!!
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 05:02 PM
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Originally Posted by TEXASPAUL
what restraunt??
if u gave me more heads up i could of found one of my friends in the springs that might want to go!!
sorry about that, I'll let you know next time so you can tell your mom what time she has to take you and your freind to the restruant
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 05:02 PM
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Originally Posted by New Edge
Holy **** dude that sucks so bad. I hope mine doesn't ever do that to me i would be extremely depressed i feel for ya man!
yeah, I couldn't say I'm the happiest person right now



BTW her sister is VERY hot...and alot tighter I'm sure(she's a year younger)....lol
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 05:19 PM
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There are plenty more women out there after all they do out number us. Now you have to fix your bumper as no self respecting girl will be seen with you and your smashed bumper :loser:
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 05:24 PM
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dont worry about it man...just get someone who is hotter..nicer...and more loyal to you and ur car...hahah.....u need some of model complection to model on ur car..haha...i.e. her sister....

best of luck to ya man.....hope u get thru it ok....
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 05:24 PM
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damn...i feel for you man. i just hope u didnt give in and chill with her anyway tonight...
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 05:37 PM
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That sucks a lot man. Sorry. How'd you find out about it, did she fess up or you caught her?
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 05:59 PM
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thanks guys...hell no I didnt chill with her, I made her walk home from my house ( couple miles)

and her BF told me she couldnt keep it a secret anymore
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 06:07 PM
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Springs, I cant say I know EXACTLY what you are going through, as my gf didnt cheat on me, but I also know that saying, "forget her, theres a million others out there" wont work either. Keep your head up, dont get too down. I know you feel like it was a wasted 10 months, trust me, try a year and 8 months...just stay positive, dont know what you think about the God thing, but he does stuff for a reason, try not to get too deep, but if it wasnt meant to be, then let it work out the way its supposed to. Personally, if she cheated on you, dont even consider taking her back, as easy as that may seem. Dont go being the tough **** and kill the other guy either, while its partly his fault, she was part of it too. Let it go, let them be happy, and realize that you are better off without the girl that was unfaithful to you, because she'll prolly do the same thing to him too. Smile, its a new day tomorrow. Go for a drive (if its not snowing, we know your driving isnt the best ) and watch some funny movies. Dont dwell on the fact that its over, just take it a day at a time. Yes, its going to be hard if you cared for the girl, its been about 2.5 months for me, and im just now coming out of the slump. Hang in there bro, ill say a little prayer for ya, cause I know what you are going through.
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 06:29 PM
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Springs, I cant say I know EXACTLY what you are going through, as my gf didnt cheat on me, but I also know that saying, "forget her, theres a million others out there" wont work either. Keep your head up, dont get too down. I know you feel like it was a wasted 10 months, trust me, try a year and 8 months...just stay positive, dont know what you think about the God thing, but he does stuff for a reason, try not to get too deep, but if it wasnt meant to be, then let it work out the way its supposed to. Personally, if she cheated on you, dont even consider taking her back, as easy as that may seem. Dont go being the tough **** and kill the other guy either, while its partly his fault, she was part of it too. Let it go, let them be happy, and realize that you are better off without the girl that was unfaithful to you, because she'll prolly do the same thing to him too. Smile, its a new day tomorrow. Go for a drive (if its not snowing, we know your driving isnt the best ) and watch some funny movies. Dont dwell on the fact that its over, just take it a day at a time. Yes, its going to be hard if you cared for the girl, its been about 2.5 months for me, and im just now coming out of the slump. Hang in there bro, ill say a little prayer for ya, cause I know what you are going through.
thanks man
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 06:36 PM
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but think of it this way...in the end, u come out stronger and u learn wat u really want.....and u learn wat to stay away from......keep ur chin up and be bold..may be hard..but u can do it...i bet alot of us beleive u can pull thru...

plus....u always got us, jon....hahahaha......
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 07:00 PM
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**** in a paper bag, light it on fire and then throw it on her front porch.
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 07:06 PM
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I really dont know what kind of advice to give but just keep yourself busy for the next couple of weeks. Dont give yourself a chance to think about it... it will just **** you off more and more. Best thing to do is either completely forget about it or, my personal favorite, beat the **** out of her bf.
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 07:40 PM
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Do her best friend.......its a good thing
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted by SpringsStang
Well I just found out that my g/f of 10 months cheated on me...I made reservations for tonite at a very nice resturaunt too....

I don't know what to do with myself.....

Dude-- key her ****ing car... key the **** out of it. Don't just stop with the paint, do the rim's too so she'll have to replace that **** too.

No I'm just kidding, I know you don't think too highly of me but that sucks dude, I'm sorry.
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 07:47 PM
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I'm sry springs, but think of it this way. The money that you used to have to spend on her and for her, you can now save and put more money into your car! or some hookers or something
 
Old Feb 14, 2006 | 07:50 PM
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Old Feb 14, 2006 | 11:50 PM
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Jon:

Best thing is to just move on. You now know that you cant trust her. Fact is, but just moving on she will be more intrigued and upset by that rather then acting like a little kitten.

Trust me, I been down this road before. In fact, I was engaged ring and all and I tell you it sucks. But, I have been married now to my wife for 13 years.
 



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