needing advice..

csledd · 04-07-2006, 02:06 PM

just trying to get a general opinion on this.. i figured some of you guys may have been in a similar situation.

so i dated this guy for a long time about a year and a half ago and it ended on pretty bad terms. we didn't say we hated each other or anything like that, we just broke up for really stupid reasons. Anyways we haven't talked to each other this whole time and he sent me a message the other day apologizing. Why do guys normally apologize out of the blue like that? My guess is for closure maybe? I dunno.. whats your guys' reasons?

Badfish · 04-07-2006, 02:13 PM

**** apologizing...stupid cheating bitch, i aughta rape that stupid ****, and kill her slut ass...

lol sorry...kinda had an outburst

jjtgiants · 04-07-2006, 02:16 PM

Yeah I think your probably right about it being closure for him..or maybe he realizes he messed up and wants you back???

csledd · 04-07-2006, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by jjtgiants

Yeah I think your probably right about it being closure for him..or maybe he realizes he messed up and wants you back???

yeah.. i dont understand people, why cant they just say what the want upfront.. makes **** a lot more easier

stang00 · 04-07-2006, 02:26 PM

i think you should forget about guys and go for chicks hahahha jp

jjtgiants · 04-07-2006, 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by csledd

yeah.. i dont understand people, why cant they just say what the want upfront.. makes **** a lot more easier

ha ha ha....yeah it makes more sense that way. Just flat out ask him....put him on the spot and make him answer why he's "really" getting in contact with you after so long.

*4.6 Love* · 04-07-2006, 02:29 PM

Apologizing is for pussies...

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csledd · 04-07-2006, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by stang00

i think you should forget about guys and go for chicks hahahha jp

haha GROSS

*venom* · 04-07-2006, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Badfish

**** apologizing...stupid cheating bitch, i aughta rape that stupid ****, and kill her slut ass...

lol sorry...kinda had an outburst

YOu do know that csledd is a girl not a dude.

*venom* · 04-07-2006, 03:11 PM

Could only be two reasons:
1. He wants you back and is trying smooth things over before he makes a move.
2. He has had a real bad experience that has made him reflect on how bad he has treated you and others. Could be a death of someone real close to him or near death of himself or a breakup with another women last but not least he has found the man upstairs.

04-07-2006, 03:19 PM

Tell him to buzz off. who cares if all of the sudden he had some sort of an epiphany and realizes what a tard he is. he is still a tard.

besides you already said you have a pic of me, so tell him to go away. <ROFL>

Look, i bet the guy just got out of a relationship, he was totally ticked off with the way it ended, and thought things were way better between the two of you, and feels guilty.

he is probably entertaining ideas of a possibility of rekindling something with you. personally, i think you oughtta just ignore him.

BlitzStyrke · 04-07-2006, 03:30 PM

Usually something as random as that is no good. Be wary

*Lances03SVT* · 04-07-2006, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Jack The Ripper

Tell him to buzz off. who cares if all of the sudden he had some sort of an epiphany and realizes what a tard he is. he is still a tard.

besides you already said you have a pic of me, so tell him to go away. <ROFL>

Look, i bet the guy just got out of a relationship, he was totally ticked off with the way it ended, and thought things were way better between the two of you, and feels guilty.

he is probably entertaining ideas of a possibility of rekindling something with you. personally, i think you oughtta just ignore him.

I agree :stupid:

He might just be trying to get lucky

csledd · 04-07-2006, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Lances03GT

I agree :stupid:

He might just be trying to get lucky

leave it to lance!!!!

*4.6 Love* · 04-07-2006, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Lances03GT

I agree :stupid:

He might just be trying to get lucky

Hit it and quit it is my motto.

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Badfish · 04-07-2006, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by venom

YOu do know that csledd is a girl not a dude.

duh....I was refrencing to the stupid bitch that cheated on me rigth before valentines day

*Lances03SVT* · 04-07-2006, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by csledd

leave it to lance!!!!

Well you wanted to know how Men think LOL

*4.6 Love* · 04-07-2006, 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Badfish

duh....I was refrencing to the stupid bitch that cheated on me rigth before valentines day

I think that was during the time venom wasn't back from his break...and thus doesn't know about your situation...

FritoBandito · 04-07-2006, 04:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jack The Ripper

Tell him to buzz off. who cares if all of the sudden he had some sort of an epiphany and realizes what a tard he is. he is still a tard.

besides you already said you have a pic of me, so tell him to go away. <ROFL>

Look, i bet the guy just got out of a relationship, he was totally ticked off with the way it ended, and thought things were way better between the two of you, and feels guilty.

he is probably entertaining ideas of a possibility of rekindling something with you. personally, i think you oughtta just ignore him.

Slapster's got this one pegged.

04-07-2006, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by FritoBandito

Slapster's got this one pegged.

Damn right i do.

Ive been "that guy" the "Other guy" the "Good guy" the "Bad guy" and the "A$$hole" Ive been all of them.

ive been in every yard on the block. ive done that. ive done the drunking depressed text message at 3am to the ex. LOL. not my most shining moment, but at least im honest. i bet alot of other dudes have done that too.
Wake up in the morning "ahhh crap what the hell? did i really send that? i gotta lay off the juice"

LMAO

DarkShadow04 · 04-07-2006, 04:55 PM

he must be coming out of the closet

CCM · 04-07-2006, 05:18 PM

He just wants some ass.

MattJ · 04-07-2006, 07:39 PM

He wants to do the "beat it up dance"

plain and simple.

WaterDR · 04-07-2006, 08:29 PM

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venom Super Moderator Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 5,320	Could only be two reasons: 1. He wants you back and is trying smooth things over before he makes a move. 2. He has had a real bad experience that has made him reflect on how bad he has treated you and others. Could be a death of someone real close to him or near death of himself or a breakup with another women last but not least he has found the man upstairs. __________________ http://www.mustangboards.com/mustang...500/ppuser/103

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Jack The Ripper Posts: n/a	Tell him to buzz off. who cares if all of the sudden he had some sort of an epiphany and realizes what a tard he is. he is still a tard. besides you already said you have a pic of me, so tell him to go away. <ROFL> Look, i bet the guy just got out of a relationship, he was totally ticked off with the way it ended, and thought things were way better between the two of you, and feels guilty. he is probably entertaining ideas of a possibility of rekindling something with you. personally, i think you oughtta just ignore him.

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