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Join Date: Sep 2007
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Inlaws Blow.
Yeah.... In laws suck.
So my wifes mom is flippin crazzy right, she thinks her dentures are bugged by the CIA or the Feds because they are nervious of the fact that she is a religious figurehead and has superpowers and can topple the government or some whacked out crap. she cant hold down a job for squat, and lives with some other equally crazy woman.
anyways, i work 2:30-10:30pm, my wife works from 9am to 1:00pm and we both live about 1/2 hour from home. So normally during the week she gets back and we have about 15-20 min before i have to leave for work.
Thursdays she works late, so her stupid mom comes over to help out (we do pay her) and watches the kids untill my wife gets home. about 3 hours.
Now, im not a slob by any measure of the imagination. I have put alot of work in my house and i do my best to keep the dishes caught up, trash taken out, laundry caught up, i keep the counters clean and wiped off, coffe table clean, i mop my floors (all hardwoord no carpet) once a week and sweep twice a week, and keep everything put away.. I feel like a frickin maid, i spend about an hour and a half every monring doing nothing but the dishes and cleaning.
however, we DO have 2 kids and 2 dogs, and they generally DO cause a bit of a mess. So my place isnt as clean as it used to, it is still presentable where anyone could come over and i wouldnt be embarassed. Its cleaner than most of my friends houses that is for sure.
So, today the "mother in law" comes over to watch the kids, she comes in and she is in a crappy mood. Whatever. I am finishing getting ready for work when she comes out of the hallway and grabs logan by his walker and starts pulling him back towards the bedrooms glares at me through the corner of her eye and she says to me:
"you shouldnt do this to people you love"
i ask "escuse me?" wondering exactly what she meant by that.
"You shouldnt do this to people you love, you shouldnt subject them to this filth!"
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"WHAT?"
and she says "Your kids deserve better than this! this place is a filthpool!"
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She then proceeds to start yelling at me, says im a lousy father, i dont take care of my family, that no child should have to live in this shithole i call a home. (i guess she never noticed i have the nicest house in the street and i gutted and completly remodeled it 100% and have ALWAYS taken care of it)
So. Needless to say i unloaded on her like a fuggin mac-10. I ask her how the hell can she judge me when she hasnt worked a day in the past 15 years and has a crappy apartment that smells like an ashtray with catshit in it. I really let her have it, told her what a waste of space she is and she has absolutly zero right coming into my house and telling me im a bad afather, I called her a crazy miserable rotton old bitch and told her to get the fuck out of my house before i had the police escort her out. She refused to leave, i had to get to work, i told her that if she ever says anything like that to me again she will never see my son again because i refuse to let some cracked out halfwit miserble flea bag have any influence on my son. Gave her the finger, said FUCK YOU, then left.
i cant freaking believe that woman.
Anyways, so i leave, i call my wife and tell her what happened, she is FURIOUS, calls her mother up, her mom wont asnwer, she calls her brother to see if she will answer if he calls, she told him the shit i said to thier mom and he basically laughted and said "That old bag deserves everything he said, im glad somebody finally said it".
My wife then calls her mom up and proceeds to bitch her out for the next 15 minuits.
i might sound a bit harsh in this, but dammit this lady is a real piece of work, she expects everyone to take care of her, she goes off on these crazy delusions. Normally i get along with her, i dont like her, but i get along with her. Anyways, she actually had the nerve to come in and disrespect my wife and i, says were horrible parents, and that we dont care about our kids cause our house is dirty, AND THE HOUSE IS FUCKING CLEAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yah i unloaded on her allright. and i dont feel bad about a single lick of what i said and i wont take ANY of it back. Apparently she is acting like she had said that stuff to my stepson, and that i misunderstood her, which i find funny cause he wasnt even in the room, and i questioned what she said and she said it right back again. Now she is lying tying to make it sound like im unreasonable.
this is par for the course though, neither rebecca and her brother are the least bit suprised by this, and both pretty upset with her.
The worst thing is when my stepson was there and she was yelling at me telling me im a llousy father and i dont take care of her daughter and grandchildren.
ARGH!
Does ANYONE else deal with this kind of crap? any suggestions on how to handle this woman? Im taking next thursday off because i dont want her sniffing her ugly wet nose around untill i calm down.
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