thanks for the advice everyone it looks like just rolling with it may be the best option.
Jack: she didn't use radar or my V1 would have gone off, plus i asked her straight up if she'd radared me.
Dfroster: since you seem to know the laws, someone i talked to tonight told me if you're going more than ten above the limit you can't go to traffic school, know anything about this?
Spike: what do you mean reduced fine? i haven't had a ticket since i was a minor and am not totally sure how it works.
Spin: was gonna call a lawyer on monday
but its probably cheaper to just pay it than hassle with legal fees.